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I am a cis girl, but in the eyes of boys my age i feel I will never be girly enough. In my first year of secondary school, I was openly out as a lesbian and in the past year and a half I have realised that I'm pretty sure I'm straight. But I was well known around town for being a 'gay emo' so now no matter how girly I dress, how much makeup makeup put on, I will never be enough. I'm not conventionally attractive either, I have a noticeable overbite, acne and bad teeth. All I want is for a boy to like me, to feel wanted, desired. I'm doing what all the other girls are doing, but my reputation proceeds me. Everyone thinks I'm gay so nobody wants me, I don't know what to do.
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Ok sorry if this advice is bad, because this is how i helped myself with it. First off, try not to keep pointing ur insecurities out because that will not help ur confidence in finding a guy, ik that sounded shitty but when i stopped pointing mine out i kinda started to feel better about talking to guys. I still do have them but it helps
2. If u are over the age of 18 u can get a dating app, or u can find a guy who lives in the next town by.
3. This may sound very corny but maybe stop doing what the other girls are doing (idk where u live but how most girls dress in my area and school is lululemon and athletic. But ngl i dont like it on me at all) so maybe try a new style and not following what everyone else is doing, because maybe this may attract a guy. There is a friend of at my school who wears unique clothes and gets many complaints, and has been on a lot of dates. So try that.
4. Not saying u are gross but hygiene is very important, so it is good if u keep ur hair clean, nails nice, and smell good. Same with breath, it is very important. If u come from a low income family and you cannot do that i understand, it doesnt need to be expensive products just nice ones. Like i said about low income or if u are on a budget dollar general has good stuff for that is cheap or u can order online from cheap places like amazon and temu. About smelling good, you can find cheap sprays and lotions, but try not to go overboard with it. Oh also find a scent the guy likes
5. Practice talking to people, just look up videos of people practicing conversations, and keep a good posture. Also try to not interrupt people because this will make it awkward.
6. Ik this is really bad, but try making new friends. Ik its kinda shitty advice but it will help you meet more people and you can ask them out. This also means going out more places and trying new things like sports or hobbies. Maybe try meeting a guy their and this will be better because than you can talk to them easier if they have similar interests in you. They dont have to just go to ur school.
7. You may wanna make the first move because if u wait forever, they may never come. I did it and it worked, i am usually kinda quiet because i have an anxiety disorder, but it isnt too hard. If they go to ur school say something like “hey do u have a pencil i can use” or you can say “do yk the answer to the question on the homework/can u help me with this”
9. If yk something they like maybe try getting into it. Like lets say a guy likes a band, try listening to the bands music and if u like it get their merchandise. But dont force yourself to like them just for a guy. This will attract them easier.
8. Pls pls pls pls dont change urself for a guy it is for the better
These are also good for making friends, i tried very hard to not make this sound cringe and i really hope these helped.
ReplyTo add on to my comment, i am very sorrY you feel like this, ik its shitty but it will get better
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