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I miss him. He stopped talking to me. But, that’s my fault. I broke up with him because I felt that I had lost feelings for him. I told him that we may get back together in the future, but not soon. He kept telling me, “I love you” “I will always love you” “You’re my favorite person, and I will never stop loving you”. I felt like I had to tell him that I still liked him. I lied about why I broke up with him; I told him that it was because of my mental health. It partially was, but it was mostly because I lost feelings for him. I started talking to other guys, hoping that my ex wouldn’t find out. I didn’t know how to tell him I didn’t like him anymore. He seemed so in love with me, and I just didn’t know what to do. I lead him on. I feel so bad about it, but I didn’t know what else I could do. I broke up with him 6 months ago, and about 2 months ago, he stopped talking to me. Blocked me on everything. He won’t even look at me anymore. When I would see him at school, he would face the other way so he didn’t have to see me. It hurt. But I was okay with it, because now I didn’t have to lead him on anymore. But for the last month, I’ve been really sad about it. I’ve rejected so many guys because they’re not like my ex. They don’t want to listen to me rant about things, they don’t care about my shopping hauls, they just don’t care as much as he did. My ex would sit there and listen to me talk for hours. He would facetime me every night. But now, he won’t even look at me. Why am I sad about it? I broke up with him. I lost feelings. Did I gain the feelings back? How is that possible if he doesn’t even talk to me anymore? For the past 3 weeks, I’ve cried every night about it. I’ve even cried to my mom. I’m even crying right now typing this. Why do I miss him now? I was a horrible person. I lead him on. I lost feelings and broke up with him. I was fine without him for 5 months. Why do I want him back now?
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you sound a lot like my ex best friend, she was leading one of my friends on for so long, he was devastated that when he found out that all she did was lead him on, they went on a date had fun and did their sh^t, but the day he found out about it seriously upset him, after what she did to him, I could never forgive her, because after all how can someone forgive a liar. I don't mean to hurt you but tbh it doesn't matter how hard you try to bring back something that was supposed to be lifetime, won't work. When I found out about, I felt so bad for him, he told me he blocked her on everything, deleted all the memories, and when I asked him "aren't you being too harsh about it, maybe give her a chance" He told me never, nothing could change his mind on someone who had hurt him. I'm just letting you know you just gotta move on, the past is the past, you can't change what's been broken, but you can try not to make the same mistake in the future. Learn from these mistakes. Sorry, good luck.
Replyyou dont want him back. you want to feel how he made you feel. trust me ive been there, its the feeling of being loved what we miss once we dont get it anymore and not the actual person. you will find someone your type or maybe things will rekindle with your ex and maybe this time it will be good.
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