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I was on my phone the other day (me and my boyfriend both go on each other's phone all the time) and my boyfriend had been using it that SAME day. I was clearing out my pages when I seen the dating app one where it shows "here's a list of woman who live near you but before we connect you we have to ask u a few questions" with a girl showing her bare ass books. Honestly I wasn't even bothered by it (kinda) I just brushed it off and I told myself I'll ask him about it later (cus we haven't been fighting and it feels good to get along and love in peace) anywho.. 2 days passed by (today being the 2nd) and he came home from the gym and we were both in a good mood and decides WHY NOT. So I said "hey I saw something on my phone and I'm curious to what it is before I show you promise me you won't get mad or snap" he said "OK WHAT" then I showed him the screens both of the page and he looked at it and sat down and told me he got it from watching either one of his battle rap pages he goes on or from YouTube be he said it was nothing so I said OK SHOW ME PLEASE and he was like "hold up nigga" and I'm like HELL NO do not call me a nigga and he cuts me off and tells me SHUT UP BITCH aggressive as fuck and storms out the room. Just like that. I slapped him on his back and told him DONT YOU EVER DISRESPECT ME LIKE THAT. I'm giving this guy the respect to even allow him to explain himself without accusing him going off on him like a lot of females would. I asked a simple question and now I'm the one crying and feeling like I did something to HIM. He's anger cus he says I don't trust him. It has NOTHING to do with trust. It's common respect it's the PRINCIPAL that if ur partner sees something that doesn't make them feel good to make sure they feel safe. He's shifting blame on me for not believing him. I feel manipulated and misunderstood. I'm crying looking for somewhere to write all this out while he's on the far other side of the bed watching short videos on YouTube. He hears me crying, pretty sure he hears me texting. He doesn't even bother to reach over and give me a simple hug. I know this is manipulation it just sucks. Am I wrong for getting in his face afterwards? I didn't get In his face for the dumb ass page I was ANGRY AND UPSET at the fact that he called me out my name like that. Usually one would just say sorry and I love you and give the person ur word. Idk. Don't know how I should feel about it at this point I regret even bringing it up cus we have been doing so good. But good doesn't last forever I suppose. What should I do in this situation?
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I feel the only way to solve this is by talking, explain to him why you are upset and what upset you and let him do the same. Then come to some sort of compromise. I really hope your situation gets better hun and I hope my comment helped in some way. <3
ReplyLeave that un great full man. None of your fault baby. You’re right a good man won’t be ignoring you like that and instead should be comforting you. Trust your instincts and you deserve better. A man who truly loves you. That man ain’t it.
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