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hey, i want to get this off my chest but i didn't want to vent to anyone i know because i don't want them to take it personal or that they made me feel this way, so i just wanted to get on here. lately i've been feeling like i'm making the people around me dislike me for no reason at all, there are no changes on their behavior or anything but i just feel so afraid to mess things up and whenever i go out with a friend, then at the night of that day i feel like i made something that made them dislike me. or i could be talking online with my friends and i randomly feel like i texted something that they didn't like. as example one of my closest friends made me meet with his significant other, and i just assumed his significant other disliked me for various reasons spinning around in my head like "did i talk about myself too much?" "did i talk too much and caused them to dislike me?" "was i being annoying?" until his significant other wanted to vent to me today. these questions go around in my head with everyone, i'm just constantly worrying about everything. i didn't use to be like this i literally have zero clue why this has been happening in the past weeks.
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Ok, I can’t say much cuz I’m still suffering from it, idk if people actually hate me or not (I’m rlly good at looking like I love people when I despise them) but like you just gotta know that they gotta deal with you no matter what instance lol, whenever they like you or not you’re in a similar experience, and you have opinions and interactions, like what are you gonna do fellow friend, hate on me? It’s not with hating people, and don’t think people hate you too much, just doubt urslef less, I write a shit ton all the time (feelin lazy rn) but like I hope people enjoy it, or for those that don’t they just are gonna skim it or something (like how I did when I first read this) idk
It’s up to you, however it’s ok to walk on people’s boundaries, if they’re uncomfortable hopefully they’ll let you know .
Thank you for sharing this fellow person,
-A person who… is hated… probably
Replyhey, op here and thank u! though the crazy thing is that i didn't use to be like this and this just started happening in the last weeks. like i'm overly stressed and anxious about everything and i dont wanna mess things up, idk why this happened though but what can i say is that you are not hated, you are loved dont worry <3
Replyi dont know why but i care so much about what other people think of me. as much as i try to act cool and tell myself "i dont give a shit about what people think," i still do. ive been trying to work on that and figure out whats causing it and where its stemming from. ive definitely struggled with feeling insecure about a lot of things and my social anxiety has been through the roof lately. i also know im a people pleaser for sure and just want everyone to like me. but as much as it consumes my mind whenever i interact with people, i know that i cant really do anything about it since people will always have their own opinions. and i think not having control of that bothers me too some times but what can ya do? i honestly have no clue if any of this made sense lol but just know that youre not alone in what youre feeling and that when youre around the right people you wont even have to question who you are as a person and just vibe :) and that youre amazing no matter what!
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