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Ok so,I like this girl so so much and I don't think she truly understands how much I like her, she always overthinks a lot and I understand why she would but she always compares herself with my ex's and I hate that because I wish she could see the way I see her and how deeply I truly do like her, I am so scared of her to leave and I know she tells me all the time that she won't leave but I am so terrified of that day to come because I feel as if she could easily get bored of me and get tired of me and that is so scary, she always fears that I am going to break up with her and she always thinks I'm going to cheat on her and break up on her but she truly doesn't understand how much I like her, I wish she felt how I felt about her so she could never have to feel like I dont like her otherwise, I don't really know how to explain with just words on how much I like her but she won't ever believe me that I truly like her so much. My feelings are starting to go grow so much and I am so scared for the day she leaves because everyday my feelings grow and get stronger each and everyday, it would suck to lose her. I am starting to feel some sort of feeling but I know she will think Its too quick to feel this way or she wont feel the same but all that really matters right now is that she's still mine, but i am so so so scared of the thought of her leaving.
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i bet you love her. it is okay to have that feeling as long as it shall be genuine and sincere. from this, I know what you have is sincere.
ReplyThank you for replying to me, you are so sweet.
ReplyDear, I hope that girl you are talking about has that potential love for you as well. You seem so warm-hearted and deserve to feel the love you are willing to share. regards to you my love.
Replyventgeorge, awh thank you so much, i hope you get all the love u deserve as well. And I hope so too but its okay if she doesn't, all feelings are different and come in waves of different timings, I learned some take time then others to truly understand how they feel, as long as she is still mine, that is all I truly care about, I am not getting my hopes up because it takes time. feelings aren't just something that just happen, it takes time to develop the feelings you gain. But thank you so much.
ReplyI have been in your shoes. Sad to announce but he left when I chose to love him, he said I was too fast to feel that way. My heart felt so much aches hearing that come from his mouth. I can tell you love this girl, but I hope you don't make the same mistake as I did, I gave my all to a guy who could not give me anything but nothing at the end. I wish you well. You deserve to have the love you are trying to give. But if they are not the one, accept that and move on to someone who can give you, the same thing you are trying to give. You deserve to receive what you are trying to give. I hope she is the one because I can truly tell that what you feel for this girl is pure but be cautious.
Replyalexqqt, I am so sorry that happened to you but I think I am aware of the person I am with, I trust her with everything and I trust that she won't ever do anything to intentionally hurt me, yes I am scared that I might end up in your situation but I like this girl too much to think so negative and letting my thoughts sabotage my own relationship that I truly do treasure and care about so much and even though she may not feel the same I shouldn't dismiss her feelings just because she takes more time then I do but thank you for looking out for me and I hope you find the person that will give you your all.
Replyrelationships have a risk of being scary in this way, but in a way it is a lucky kind of feeling. I'm sure this girl will come around to feel the same way for you, it seems that you are very genuine, don't worry.
ReplyNovni Guest, relationships do have a risk of being scary in this way and I'm not saying I don't want to face the risk because for this girl I would do anything to risk anything for her, she is worthwhile and worth the risks. Yeah, it may be scary and all but as you said, it is a lucky kind of feeling. I'm not sure if she will come around to feel the same for me because she thinks differently then I do but my only hope is for her to stay. ( thank you so much for commenting)
ReplyEveryone can love differently, maybe she just has a different way of showing it. You seem very sweet and also very much stuck in this specific feeling, I truly hope the best for you in this situation.
ReplyNovni Guest , Thank you so much wdym very much stuck in this specific feeling, and wdym by everyone can love differently.
Replyby the way you talk about how you feel and how all you want for her is to stay, it seems as though you're stuck in "love" or this strong feeling you have. Meaning that it seems as though it would take a lot to lose this feeling and possibly a while before you can, but thats ok. Everyone can love differently, meaning they can show their love in ways that you may not see, like spending plenty of time with you, giving you their attention, however they may choose to show it. For most people these things can be a big deal of vulnerability to show, personally I am one of them, and I am not known to be as emotional as others, so my way of attempting to show love is through my attention and opening up. Do you understand?
ReplyI'm so so sorry I am like so slow right now, but what do you mean by stuck, like is that a bad thing?? But yeah I just don't see her being able to feel the same way towards someone like me you know? She is someone who doesn't really show much emotion also so I get that but yeah I don't really know how she feels. I wish I did.
ReplyStuck on this girl, I could tell you clearly care a lot about them. I mean, it's not technically a bad thing but it is scary, I get that. But keep in mind, keeping a mindset of believing that she wouldn't feel the same way towards you only hurts yourself because she may feel that way right now but you might be blinded by your own fear. Do you think she's tried to show you how she felt but you've doubted it?
ReplyOh, that makes a lot more sense. Yeah, I care so much about her. So much that I let my fear overcome everything. To be completely honest, I know this sounds dumb but I have never felt such a strong feeling or just this feeling before and I'm so scared to just accept it instead of letting my fear get to me. I had this feeling she tried to show it but I didn't want to overstep anything and assume what she feels about me, because if I think she feels the same way then it would suck to be wrong at the end.
ReplyIt's ok to have that feeling, that feeling seems dumb at first but everyone usually tends to get it with someone special. And yes being scared, is part of it but make sure you don't let it affect the relationship between the both of you in a negative way, it seems as though both of you may be experiencing this fear together. It differs with everyone but you might want to just live in the moment of it and not worry, when it comes up you might want to talk to her about it and clear the air if you can. I completely understand the overstepping part as well, best not to assume but also remember to not ignore simple and possibly clear signs.
Replyawwh you are so sweet :) thank you so much, sorry if I was making you talk so much, I'm pretty slow sometimes.
Replyno dont worry i loved talking from experience.
ReplyI'm sure that she is just as scared to lose you too, hearing how much you say she overthinks. I'm sure she feels the same way and it seems as though both of you are simply scared of being heartbroken.
ReplyNovni Guest . Yeah, I know it goes both ways. I'm not quite sure that she feels the same way but either way my feelings for her won't change in any way, my feelings for her grow every day and I understand she takes more time than me, she has always been like that, all I want for her is to receive the love she deserves, whether it comes from me or someone she chooses to feel that towards. I know for sure she's scared to get hurt but as I tell her everytime, I couldn't possibly do anything to ever hurt her. I know people say that a lot and don't actually mean it but with everything in me and with my whole heart, I mean every word, I wouldn't be able to ever forgive myself if I ever hurt her, she means a lot to me and I could never see myself hurting her. Thank you so much for your sweet comment :)
Replyyou have a very genuine and pure attitude towards her, i am sure with such energy she can see this within you too as long as you are able to be as forward with her as you seem to be now.
ReplyI wish she knew what I was feeling.
Replyare you going to tell her?
Replytell her what?
Replyhow you feel
ReplyOf course I will, I'm scared what she would say though.
ReplyI'm sure if you trust her and trust her intentions, either way she feels wouldn't be negative.
ReplyI trust her and no matter how she feels it will always be valid no matter if she doesn't feel the same. I always love to look through her perspective. But there's also this thing that I keep thinking and I'm not so sure how to feel.
Replywhat are you thinking that you’re not sure how to feel about?
ReplyI don't know if she's truly happy with me or not and I don't want to be selish and make her stay, she say's she is happy but people can easily lie, but I trust her a lot and I don't just ignore her words but I think she deserves so much more than I am giving her, but I don't want to ever leave her because I like her so much but I also don't want to be selfish because I feel as if she can so much happier without me.. I don't know i always overthink everything.. It just sometimes i feel as if i don't make her happy but i don't really know with her because she doesn't really show much emotion towards me.
Replyshe’s probably happy with you if she is still with you, if not then why would she stay? and wdym doesn’t show emotion towards you? being in a relationship is when the two should be the most vulnerable with each other and show all emotions. i know you’re scared, but don’t doubt yourself.
ReplyDo you think she would be better without me?
Replyhonestly if you are as intentional as you seem, i believe that she sees how great you are and that she loves you too. so no i doubt she’d be “better” without you. everyone needs someone who is as caring as you.
ReplyI hope so. She means so much to me and I am so lucky to have her, she makes me the happiest and nothing could ever compare to how she makes me feel. If anything, if you knew her you would think that everyone needs someone like her, but thankfully she's mine and no one else's.
ReplyI bet you make her just as happy, just be honest with her. i can tell you are very pure and careful with this girl.
ReplyI just realized that she doesn't feel the same way... but it's okay lol
Replyyou told her your feelings?
Replyno.. but something happened which made me realize she doesn't...
Replyoh im sorry, maybe just give it time.
ReplyI think rn she prob doesn't even know how she feels ab me
Replyi’m sorry to hear that, don’t give up unless you know for sure..
ReplyThere no way she do not feel the same with your loving self I know she would have to feel the same your loving mind deserve to have someone that feels the same if that girl do not, move on baby...
Replybbgsanyra , aw tysm, but either way if she feels differently its okay, I am not moving on just because she chose to have different feelings than I do, people have different feelings, normalize that.
Replyyou love her you will be okey dude keep on loving is normal to be afraid of falling but you are doing good do some nice gestures like a gift some flower maybe you will be alright good lcuk you are amazing for loving so much
Replyawhhh tysm :)
ReplyYour love seems very genuine for her. Maybe find a way to let her know. Like with flowers or poetry. I hope things go well for you 2 :)
Replyawwhh tysm.
ReplyReal question is.... does she love you? No doubt should wave in, I have been in this situation and I got cheated on and so will you... you deserve love ml, you have such a warming heart.
Replyoh..... I don't know..
Replyit sounds like you’re in love. have you tried to tell her how you feel and do you think she has too?
ReplyI know for sure she doesn't feel that way lol.
Replyyou never know unless you tell her.
Replyshe's the type to dismiss my feelings though because she won't believe it and say I'm delusional and I feel like she would say whatever I feel is too quick and she doesn't feel the same but I am going to make sure that she knows how I feel, obviously.
Replyoh. maybe she feels the same you never know.
ReplyI hope so..
Replydo you love her?
ReplyWhat do you think? Because I know how I feel, but that is only for me and her to know before anyone else.
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