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i stopped looking at my friends' stories or posts cus of my massive jealously. they all seem to be having a rlly great summer break, going to beautiful places and taking pictures with nature. and me? im stuck at home, and i hate it so much. i hate how my family doesnt even feel like making plans and i hate how we're not rlly well-off. it hurts seeing other people having the best time of their lives. i just want to embrace and visit glorious places, i want it so badly before i drown on stress again once school starts .. im crying so much
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One of the great secrets to life is to focus on all the good in your life. You probably have more blessings than you realized, and believe me whatever your current circumstances are, there are others that would give up anything to walk in your shoes.
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ReplyI understand what you mean
I became jealous, spiteful and full of hate. I lashed In every direction, and I soon became a monster, a monster that hurt. By the time I realized I was one, the damage was done. Everything I had and loved was shattered, and I shut off from everything. I closed my heart to everyone, and it would never get better. I was the type of kid who grew up not allowed to be depressed, only feel sad when it’s convenient, When those I loved were sad. I wasn’t allowed to do many things in life that immediate family, close friends were able to experience. I wasn’t allowed anything, and so I grasped everything I held dear and shut down (I too was an isolated kid). And I shut down for years and years. I then came to a realization that things wouldn’t get better, things would only get worse. So I just happily cherish what I have, and learned to appreciate the world around us, I learned to love. I learned that jealousy isn’t ever going to help, and so to become a better person I smiled, I was lucky to have friends so free from my prison. I was lucky and happy to spend my time with them, and now it’s time for you to spend it on yourself, so that you too can become a better person than you once were, to keep up with their joys and moments. Make do with what you’re given fellow person, I mean it.
ReplyGolly! I'm not the owner of this writing but damn you're seriously everywhere in every post I open.
Replybut also keep it up, you helping others out is amazing, so really ty :))
ReplyLol oh no you’re onto me.
Tho it’s appreciated that my existence is confirmed. I thank you for making my day fellow person, and I hope that you too can make people’s days a little better, just like how you made mine.
Truly appreciated, thanks
-another person
Replyyou are not alone. this is an very common experience, i have felt this too and i know it makes you feel helpless watching the world go by. you took the right step by not watching stories anymore. guess what though? nobody's life is as good as they make it seem. social media is literally just for the highlights, not for everything somebody is going through in their life. try being grateful for as many things/experiences you already have (not that you can't want more, but just focus on the present). you have to FEEL the feeling. put yourself in someone elses shoes. there are people out there who would look at you the same way you look at your friends. another thing i wanna tell you, if there is something not ideal about your current life you have all the power in the world to change it. you sit at home all day and you wish you did more fun things. i totally get why you'd feel the way you do, i dont know anyone who wouldnt. try to go out more and do things that make you happy. as many of them as possible. and remember, every time you start comparing yourself with somebody else turn around and find something in your own life to be grateful for. one day you will realize that you are just as amazing, special, and cool as anybody else. gratitude is the key!
ReplyI felt that.
ReplyWell if you are unable to go places try to make the best of it. You can always talk to your friends. If you like drawing, for example, you could draw. It is hard to be upset you can't do these things but try to do your best.
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