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I have a guy feeling the boy who my mom forces me to talk to we will be married in future. But I don't want that cause I don't have feelings for him but as usual my mom doesn't care about love she loves how educated a man is and I don't need love in marriage. I m sure that I will not be like my aunt who admits that she never loved her husband and the reason she got married was just to make my grandmother happy. Now I wonder why I can't find true love while my brother and my cousin got love easily. What am I even doing wrong
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There is some sense in what your mother says. In the1950s and before that women didn't marry for love. They married to be accepted by society because if they didn't marry they would be branded 'an old maid, 'a spinster,' or 'left on the shelf' and even though there wasn't love there was respect between husband and wife and very few divorces. They stayed together through everything as they promised in their marriage vows and for the sake of their family that they were raising. The man cared for and supported his wife and he was the head of the house. Now that it is all about love and women control the men there are millions of divorced couples. In many cases love fades and you see the person in a new light because love blinds you to the person's faults and not only has the love gone but you are left with someone you don't even like. Maybe like and respect is better than this romantic love but you do what you want.
ReplyLet me just say that this isn't 1950's no more and that I know that I don't want to settle with a man just to make my mom happy. I will not be happy for sure. But thanks for the advise
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