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he was my best friend for over 3 years. we shared really incredible memories together. a lot of people used to ship us because we were so close but we stayed friends. i dated someone and broke up with them while we were friends, and so did he. then, we moved abroad to the same country but different states.
we got disconnected in the middle because i had recently broken up with someone and i needed space. but then after a few months of healing, we got back into contact and became closer than ever before. he confessed that he liked me and had been since a long time. i kind of liked him back at this point so i reciprocated it. then, he kind of didn't make the same effort he did before he knew i liked him back. but, we still continued in this situationship sort of bond. when i used to ask him if we should date officially, he said i really want to and i really like you but i don't want to lose our friendship so i don't wanna risk it with long-distance, lets just wait. i believed it and agreed. everything was fine and we decided to meet in-person after a year and we were super close at this time.
when we met in-person, there was a third girl too, she was our mutual friend and she had a bf but she joined us bec she lived close by. i didn't mind. but his energy with me wasn't the same. he did not know his boundaries with the other girl and prioritized her way more than me. i felt super betrayed and uncomfortable. i communicated it to him. he apologized but the next day, nothing changed. at this point i couldn't communicate anymore, bec looking at his face made me wanna hug him but i couldn't because he didn't deserve it.
i left. cut him out of my life. blocked him from everywhere except one platform. its been months now and although, i was super confident about my decision before.. I'm second guessing it now. did i really make the right choice? i miss him. but he never reached out to me except calling me twice the same day i left but i didn't pick up.
ofc there's lots of details missing here, but the summary is this. can someone help me out here. what should i have done? what should i do now?
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No offense but I just want to say that stories from other people really do fascinate me for making me see what situations people could be in this life. Especially, situations I can't count on myself being in.
So thank you for sharing and I hope you receive your needed advice and good luck.
ReplyNo offense but I just want to say that stories from other people really do fascinate me for making me see what situations people could be in this life. Especially, situations I can't count on myself being in.
So thank you for sharing and I hope you receive your needed advice and good luck.
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