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So there is this guy who I was friends with since 2018 he is a Pakistani and I m a Maldivian. We didn't talk much until this year we were able to have a good conversation. But there is a problem is that he started to talk about marriage with me. I don't like him like that but my mom wants me to marry him as she believes he is marriage material. But I have noticed that he has red flags too. Like he got really insecure when I told him about my sister in law and he said that he fears that I will be more close to her and ignore him when in real she is just a family. He once yelled me calling me a catfish because he thought I. Was from another country and that he tracked my phone for it and thirdly he even said that if I wasn't in Maldives he would not wait for me to finish my studies and like since I m studying he has to wait for it. Like I don't think he is the one for me. And I do believe that when someone has 1 red flag they will have more hidden. I don't know what to do. I tried to warn my mother about it. But she desperately wants me to get married.
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ReplyBe frim and obvious, avoid discussing with ur mom and tell her ur situation. For that guy, just leave him u dont need to start that u know how it will ends, Im afraid he will be rude with u and u wont feel relaxed with him and makes ur life sad so just dont start it, u deserve much better person that makes u feel u r loved. Also be careful he might be mad after being refused so try to end it peacefully (u know if he found another girl and think she is better than u u will survive).
Continue studying so u can be independent and wait for a real man ur not in a race marriage can wait.
Best wishes good luck ur strong ♡
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