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I’m currently 20 weeks pregnant. and throughout my pregnancy i have felt nothing but alone. my boyfriend has been a really huge help but honestly recently i felt like that’s changed.
it’s like he completely forgot i was pregnant or something and it hurts, he’ll yell at me, boss me around, verbally abuse me and it’s not good for me or my baby.
just the other night we got in to a huge argument and he had told me that he wanted an abortion because i told him he wasn’t allowed into my delivery room unless he gets his anger under control and honestly was really about to tell him i don’t think you’re ready to be a dad and i won’t let you into my daughters life if you can’t manage your anger or keep it in control because how am i supposed to feel safe with you around our kid. he did not take it well when he mentioned abortion it broke my heart so much i could almost feel my baby crying.
someone please any advice on what i should do.
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Get the help you need in order to deal with this issue accordingly and safely.Talk to a trusted family member, friend or an authority that will help you. If it's becoming a very toxic and unhealthy relationship, then might be best to leave your boyfriend for awhile. Only you would be the better judge of that than I would in such case as its your relationship, but you need to be honest with yourself about the kind of relationship you have with this guy.
If you have the resources and support, i would recommend taking time apart away from him to cool off. It will prevent you from stressing and causing any harm towards you. Should only go back to your boyfriend once there's serious changes within him and takes his role seriously, but doing so respectfully.
It would give your boyfriend time to reflect and hopefully take responsibility in doing something about his unacceptable behaviour towards you. He may be stressed and dealing with issues of his own, but taking it out on you isn't the way.
I can't really say much about it for sure but i wouldn't want you to be in a position where you feel unsafe and unhappy around your boyfriend. I highly suggest protecting yourself by getting away for awhile, until things cool over and he is willing to change. You need to see real improvement on his side as your well-being comes first too, along with your little one.
Best of luck to you.
ReplyThank you this helped a lot.
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