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Before we were even together, we had an issue because he was talking to his ex for months and I had no idea until I saw her tag him in her selfie. We resolved it and I just believed him when he said that he didn't think it was important to enough to tell me.
After a year, he told me he was talking to this girl so I was like ok bcs he told me. He said they're just friends so it didn't bother me until we were jokingly checking each other's chat boxes bcs he just saw mine unintentionally. So he showed me his and I saw his and that girl's chat and they were talking abt me. It was when I opened up to him abt my feelings w the lost of my dad and that I was not in the right head space to be in a relationship w him. I was scared I was going to be too depressing for him and that's exactly what he told her. I felt violated bcs that was my vulnerability that I chose to tell him and him only. But I chose to disregard it bcs we were only joking around. He then decided to chat her and introduce me by saying "my gf is here reading we me as we speak. The girl became defensive and did not acknowledge my presence. I felt somethign off abt it so I told him that she may think that I'm not good enough for u bcs of how u talked abt me or she doesn't like me bcs she likes u... he denied both. I told him to confront her and he sent me a screenshot of her saying "u know how I am and how I feel about you." That is not a confession but a reminder abt her feelings so I said that to him but he still denied knowing. He said he can't lose another friend bcs she's rly special to him even more than his ex from the first issue. That's when I decided to leave bcs I was exhausted emotionally. I can't keep making him choose between me and another girl so I left.
We spoke after we broke up and he admitted of hiding it from me bcs he was "protecting" me bcs he knows how I'll react and I did according to him. Of course I didn't buy it. He proceeded to admit his lies and that he has been talking to this girl even b4 me. So the whole time I felt like everything was a lie. I felt like I didn't know him at all. Was I wrong for feeling the way I did? Was that cheating? Should I have forgiven him and stayed? He was sweet and would have been perfect if he didn't lie...
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You did the right thing by breaking up with him.
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ReplyIf you asked him to not talk to that one girl that's bothering you and affecting your relationship, and still he doesn't stop or doesn't want to, what's the point in staying when he can't even do the one thing you asked him because its hurting you?
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