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I hate when I make a good, solid plan that solves a problem that people need fixed. But when the plan happens to fall short notice, people have a hang up about enacting it. It's not an inconvenience, it solves the problem, it doesn't interfere with work or pets, etc. but they're like, "Oh, it's just too soon!" Whatever happened to people being spontaneous? Whatever happened to that sense of adventure? I now understand why "not being adventurous enough" or "lack of spontaneity" is a turn off in relationships. I never understood what they meant by that complaint but now I understand why "being monotonous" is a funk people slip into and end up seeking out different partners. It's a turn off when timidness ends up causing complications or delays in action. It's seriously unattractive. Just take a leap of fun and say yes, especially when all you have to do is show up and let the other person take you on a journey. Yeesh. People end up missing out on some great things.
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Maybe try respecting others differences. Your belief aint wrong but others belief aint wrong too.
ReplyThey don't seem disrespectful but I get it
ReplyJesus fucking christ I'm glad I'm not the only one. I feel like my entire god-damned life planning, organizing and facilitating shit and all I ask in return is people show up and enjoy themselves and they don't. My friends go on and on about wanting to do a tabletop game so I buy the rules, learn them, organize a gane, take them through character creation and then we never llay because nobody can be bothered to show up.
I get asked to organize work events and nobody ever bothers to reply to me so they end up not happening. I can get behind short notice being problematic but if fucks me off when people like us go out of our fucking way to solve problems for other people only to have them flake out on us at rhe eleventh hour because something better came up.
We should just stop, fuck them, they can sit at home and binge TikTok's for thebrest of their adult lives.
ReplyYeeeeeep. My mom has been carrying on for YEARS about taking a trip to Germany. I asked her which area of Germany she wants to see, what sights she wants to visit, which foods she's most excited about, what the budget is, etc. I worked out all the details and came up with this absolutely perfect itinerary. I showed it to her and she was thrilled. I told her that we could go down to the post office together and apply for her passport. She was all gungho about it but when it was time, she kept making excuses (she's too tired today, doesn't feel like it right now, etc) and I started realizing that she wasn't going to get it done. I wanted her to see Germany in the spring since the winter is the worst time to go because everything is closed. We kept missing the window for hotel bookings and reasonable flights but she didn't seem to care. Mind you, this woman had been fantasizing about Germany for like, 20 years. She has more disposable income than God but I think she's afraid of going through with it. This was a few years ago and I've accepted that she's never going to take the trip. Some people like the idea of planning something but can't find the effort to go through with it for whatever reason. It's disappointing but whatever. 🤷🏼♀️
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