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So there's this guy at work who's worked there for like 3yrs now but I never really talked to unless it was small work talk. I know nothing personal about him. Anyway, I never really noticed him until this February. I don't even know how or why it happened but I kinda developed a crush on him. I never did anything about it either because I thought, "oh it's just a small crush, I'm sure it'll go away in like a few days or weeks." Well it's now August and it hasn't gone away. Keep in mind this is someone I have worked 3yrs with but rarely associate with, if at all. Well I've debated on whether I should try to make a move or at least talk to him more and maybe confess my feelings but: 1. I'm extremely shy when it comes to that and 2. I don't want it to become awkward at work if he doesn't reciprocate or make him uncomfortable in any way. I've told myself "just let it go, you'll get over it soon enough" but its now at the point where he's just randomly on my mind or even in my dreams lol! However, today I just found out while overhearing him tell someone that he's put in his 2 week notice and I don't know why but I was pretty bummed out all day. So now I don't know if I should just do or say something about how I feel or just let it go. I mean if I no longer have to see him, I'm sure the feelings will go away right? But then again I know the not knowing part will eat at me like it has before. I just don't know what to do or what to say for that matter.
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Tell him that you heard he is leaving and ask him what he intends to do next. Get into a conversation with him and ask him if he would like to have a coffee with you after work.
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