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I just don't get it. I moved recently out of my hometown and I had a long-term crush since my time there. I told them a codename and clearly felt uncomfortable telling them who it actually was. I stayed like this for a while until my friends started talking about new crushes with codenames. I asked them who is it if they wanted to tell me but they used the excuse that since I didn't tell them my crush they wouldn't tell me theirs which I felt a bit sad about because 2 years ago I had developed trust issues because some friends had spilled my secret about my crush and just as a reminder they had asked and knew about my trust issues. Now I feel left out and whenever I ask what's happening with their crushes not even knowing their name they won't even tell for your guy's information this is a group chat, not just a single chat, and everyone in this group chat knows each other's crushes. Yes, they had told me there crushes before I told them I liked someone but now that all changed because I gained one. I really don't know if I'm in the wrong if I am being quite frank but I feel it is a bit inhumanizing and I fully understand if they are goofing around but I'm kind of sad and even a little angry. What should I do? Do I need to tell them my crush to reclaim my friendship? Am I in the wrong for not telling them and feeling upset about something that I possibly couldn't adjust? Please tell me honestly, I really need advice and honestly don't know what to do next. Thank you for reading.
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Explain to them why you won't tell anyone your crush's name and hope they understand. In the future don't mention any crush to them. You are in the wrong for not telling them the name of your crush and expecting to know the names of their crushes.
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