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my ex boyfriend and i have been broken up for 3 weeks but something strange happened.
1 year ago · 4 · Need Advice, +2
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so basically, my boyfriend and i broke up around 3 weeks ago. we had only officially dated for a week but were talking for over 2 months before he randomly decided he wasn’t ready for a relationship. he was going off and on from being rude and dry to being lovey for nearly 2 weeks after. he’s at college rn, i’m a senior in high school. he’s honestly been kinda toxic and said and did some pretty bad things. anyways, he decided last week that we’re completely over and we’re going no contact. so i haven’t texted or called him for a week. just now i got a follow request from him on instagram (mind you, he was following me before and viewing all of my stories) and then sent 2 texts saying “i accidentally unfollowed you ngl 😭” and then “i was trying to remove you from my close friends”. first of all, what?? second of all, i looked and the unfollow and close friends buttons are on opposite sides of the screen, not close to each other at all. do you think it was genuinely an accident, or was he trying to get my attention and reach out? he hasn’t responded or even seen my response to me saying it’s okay. i need advice!
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he doesn't care
Replyidk, i personally think that he might just be trying to get your attention to be honest with you. maybe he's not fully over you but he just wants the comfort of not having to struggle with commitment - which isn't fair to you. i don't think it was an accident at all i think he knew what he was doing. i feel sorry that you have to go through this - be with someone who actually has the same values as you such as commitment to a relationship and not someone who will be toxic to you, and or not treat you as amazing as you likely deserve. don't settle for less, trust me you'll find someone good & amazing for you
Replyi think so too. today he put a love song on his notes with the “:)” face for the second time bc he knows it bothers me 😭 he’s so strange
Replyyeah he doesn't seem right for you but that's just my opinion. get someone who does better for you, you deserve someone good.
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