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Sometimes, I don't understand people.
For example, I will never talk about my own achievements or happiness with someone who just vents to me that they're struggling, nor I talk about someone else's story (someone I and that person know) having a good time. I respect this person's feelings and think, "How can I talk about my happiness when this person feels sad about their situation?"
But my friend's different. After I vented, they started talking about their happiness and achievements or their other friends' achievements. On the other hand, I tried to understand that maybe they didn't have bad intentions, it's just that they were not so sensitive about this kind of thing or trying to cheer me up by inspiring me about their happiness. But I am sure enough that is not how you cheer up someone. So I came to the conclusion that they are just not sensitive. Even though I know that, sometimes I still feel disappointed in them.
Another example. I think people would tell their friends that they are bringing another friend at least. That's how you respect your friend, you are supposed to tell them. But no, this friend of mine who always full of advice when no one asks, and can be said I see her to be an example of toxic positivity. One day, she asked me to hang out and I agreed. She said to be in place at 10 AM, I late like 10 minutes so I apologize, but then this girl... said she was still eating with her friend and then came after like 40 minutes, and you know what? She doesn't even say sorry...
Also, when someone feels angry or uncomfortable with you. They would not tell you, instead, they would talk behind your back with someone else. They are not trying to talk to you, they expect you to read their mind and emotions. TF.
There is a thing I feel a lot of regret. That is me being a people pleaser. There is a lot of time I am being wronged by people, when I on the other hand trying to understand with all my brain. It's like they are not trying to understand me.
My point here is, I am confused about whether I am wrong or not. Is it me that the way I think and act is wrong or them? But after I wrote this, I came to some conclusion, those people of course will think they are not wrong, they are prioritising themselves after all. Even after being wrong, they will still act like nothing happened and not say sorry (of course not all people like that) or they will think they are right. Why is it I always doubt my actions and the way I think?
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From what you have said it looks like they are wrong. People are selfish and righteous so if you want to mix with them this is what you put up with nowadays. Politeness and manners are gone and replaced with rudeness and selfishness.
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