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It seems at though no matter how hard I try to get this guy out of my head it doesn’t seem to work. I have had this crush on him for 3 years now. I never thought about even telling him how I feel because I know he doesn’t like me. We’re polar opposites. He plays in sports, he’s fit, and he’s cute. I’m definitely none of those things. I’ve told myself over and over again that I would try to subside this crush I’ve had for years and move on to someone else. I tell myself that he would never even think about someone like me, but nothing I do takes my mind off of him. I repeatedly catch myself looking for him in the hallways in the morning or trying to see him on my way to the bus after school. And since we don’t go to the same school during the day, I thought I’d be able to find myself someone else to yearn over. But no one has even come close to him, so I find myself thinking about him during the school day as well. It’s frustrating because I know he’ll never like me back or even look my way. What’s even more crazy is that he’s told me, about 2 years ago, something really insulting and made me cry at home and made my self confidence go down even further than it already was. No matter how much I feel like I’m getting over him, I never truly am because I wanna feel like maybe there’s something there. That maybe he thinks about me too, maybe as much as I think about him. Even though I know it isn’t true. I know that I shouldn’t like him even after what he said to me that ruined my self esteem. I just don’t get how my brain can be so wired to him and so hung up on him. He’s the perfect height, the perfect humor, the perfect style. Every time I look at him I remember what he’s said to me but I also remember how cute and perfect he is. It’s just so annoying.
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No one is perfect. Everyone has flaws, physical or otherwise. It's ok to aspire, but keep working on plan B in the meantime; have that plan B ready for when the time is right to switch to plan B. Best of luck.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
ReplyLiterally dealt with the same thing, after a while u start js not caring anymore but it does still irritate you from time to time
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