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I think my boyfriend jerks off to other girls…. Secretly of course. I have confronted him about it before but said I have no trust in him. But on his instagram I’ve seen his visited links and it’s been girls before like those famous girls who dress up a certain way and y’all know what I mean. I have seen on social media a lot of girls go through this. It really brings down my self esteem. Like why do guys to this. I’ve even read of Reddit before from a guys perspective and he said oh I still love my girl but sometimes “I wanna j**k O*F to a different face. & I was like wtfff. To me I’m just like then why are you with me ?? We are fully move in together so if guys wanna answer my question please do. If girls read it please answer too. I’m just so broken right now. Is there gonna be a guy out there who is not gonna do this to me or are all guys like this?? With no self discipline 😢😢😢💔💔 I have a friend who said she doesn’t care because they basically have to feelings for the girls they’re jerk**ng off too. So she said she doesn’t care but to me?? I see it as disrespectful?? How can I approach him about this.
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Seriously I feel it's bad and I really think it's disrespectful towards you! To be honest when my hubby makes me cum and I am unable to make him c um I do ask him to watch some porn and let his out! I don't feel offended because I feel if I was not able to and I am tired it's ok if he want to opt that option - he did that once but post that he felt so guilty that he never ever did it in all these 4 years even if I forced him to since felt bad that he was not able to c um.
I asked him what makes him feel not to - he said ur face and u r enough to make me feel what i want to i don't need to do what i used to when i was alone and had no one.
So I didn't type this to make u feel bad ok! I had a previous a** whom i got married to but he used to go to women to sleep with - but yet he was committed to me but when i found out within 7 days of our marriage i was able to get a divorce and make that marriage officially VOID!
So basically it's depends on the partner if u r ok go forward if not LEAVE ASAP! 0 EXCUSE like I gave on my first one within 7 days!! Just 0!! Not a fu**!! And see now I am happy!!
You need to stand up for urself !! From what I see u can't stand this kind of shitty behaviour- girrrlll LEAVEEE NOWWW!! download tinder or whatever the F and go one blind dates NOW!! Else take a break go on a vacay!! U need it !!
ReplyJe**king off to someone else's face or sleeping with someone is basically not the same but neither did u get married to him - so u can leave him easily !! Dont think much!! He won't change !! For sure !! He will ONLY GET BETTER AT HIDING AND DOING IT AND PROBABLY END UP SLEEPING WIT SOMEONE SOMEDAY
ReplyHmm ... i have zero experience in relationship but i think sometimes jerking off by looking on to p**n videos isn't bad .... but if this goes on like daily then he should see a gynaecologist and you should leave from their asap .... there are so many better boys gurlll!! Go and meet them and don't be in a hurry to move in with them you will have entire life to do this . Just meet people like lots and lots and then go for the one you really think is the one for you :)
ReplyThere is sex and making love. He makes love to you.
ReplyI know he does. I'm in love.
ReplyBut she wants the sex to be just about HER and no other woman. What do men not get? Why should she put emotional investment in a man that looks at other women?
ReplyHi! As a woman I feel this is sort of a red flag. Why sort of? Because one can argue that he's not really cheating on you. He's just masturbating to photos and videos of other girls. Big deal. Men watch porn and do exactly that. But at it's core this habit itself is not alright. Hence, the red flag. I was 22 when my first boyfriend casually told me that he could never imagine my face everytime he masturbated because he felt that was disrespectful. It took me several years a few more toxic relations to understand and later confront him too, that all you did was shag to other girls. It wasn't out of respect for me, it was just a habit of yours to explore something new even if it's in your mind. Guess what? That behaviour of him was later followed by him cheating on me and abusing me publicly. So yes. If your mind goes to a place like this, it's good you pour down your thoughts into words. Read your own passage again and again. Look at your pain. See that anger. Is it worth it? We chip away away too much in the name of love. It isn't supposed to be this difficult at all. Love you loads. Hope you make the right decision. Apologies for rambling.
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