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I have a boyfriend, and whenever I'm with him I feel insecure all the time. I can feel his concern towards some women. I know there's nothing wrong with that but I think its too much if he takes care of them like his girlfriend? He also have a girl bestfriend which he said he treated as a younger sister but whenever I saw them it looks like she's more than his girlfriend than I am. Then lately, we haven't talk for a while and his chats seems a bit cold. I can feel his coldness and distant all over again as we broke up once. Do you guys think I'll still settle for this relationship?
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i think you should communicate with him, talk about what does he want to do with your relationship.
ReplySister, absolutely not! Red flags all over. You can obviously have an one on one conversation about this. But chances are high that he'll turn it over you. It'll all be your fault somehow. Your boyfriend is your safe space. If there is one modicum of negativity in that space then run! He has concern for other women but not the girl who loves him so much and is actually his girlfriend. Men, I swear make no sense at times. But against all odds I do believe there are still a few good/honest ones out there. And till you bump onto one, don't settle for crumbs. We all do that. Bt deep down in our stomach, we know it's wrong. You know what's right. Just go for it! X
ReplyBased on what you have described it seems you have good reason to feel how you feel. In my humble opinion it might be a good time to set some boundaries with him and see how it goes. Best of luck.
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