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Long story short. We were colleagues and he wanted to try FWB with me. I said I only interested in cuddling and he agreed. But when we hangout he always try to have sex with me which I refused initially. Then somehow he managed to blur the boundaries and we start having foreplays. But before all this I ask him many times whether is he in relationship. Because I don’t want to get involved if he has gf. He told me he is single. I tried to do background check but he is too private. So I believed he is single. But this FWB was having negative effect on me as it’s not making feel good. I told him that I would like to stop meeting before actually lead to sex. He got angry and upset. He said when comes to him I’m not giving him what he wants. I said we want different things. I just want cuddles from the start and not sex. He was guilt tripping and I felt for it. We had sex but agreed it would be last time and end this FWB. He end up making me pregnant. I told him to use protection because the pills have bad effect on me. But he told me to trust his pull out method. Found it earlier about pregnancy and it was small tiny spot. Had to abort it. Trust me this whole thing was miserable for me. I’m not this type of person. To make things worse, he started giving excuses and don’t even treat me like friend anymore. And guess what, he had girlfriend this WHOLE TIME which I only found out after all this over. I ghosted him and blocked him. But I feel so stupid and betrayed for putting me in this awful position. I’m crying everyday because he made me feel like a toy. I always valued him as a person and a friend. HE IS SO FAKE AND SELFISH.There is a part of me would want to take revenge and tell his gf. But there is another part of me just wanna let go and be better in my life. But all I know my heart is aching everyday and I could only pray to make me strong because I had traumatic relationship in the past. And this incident only making it worse. Please help me..I feel so hurt…I’m suffering everyday.
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Breathe.
There are people who are meant to be with us and help us in of journey.... and there are people who were just passing through. With each person we come across are lessons. You will come of this stronger.... wiser.... kinder. Do not let your past hinder you from moving forward.
I hope that you realize the life and love that you so long for and deserve. Chin up. Have faith.
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ReplyThank you ♥️ Things have been so heavy lately. Your kind comment make me feel lighter. Have a nice day wherever you are.
ReplyI feel like you need love and care in life. You should start an actual relationship or have good friends around you without getting sex involved.
ReplyUnfortunately some people are just users and not nice people. You've been fooled by this person but you won't be fooled again.
It's not a nice feeling for you, i understand, but try and focus on what you can learn from it and how it can make you stronger and wiser and more confident in yourself.
Honestly telling the gf wouldn't be revenge, it'd be the right thing to do because out there shes just another girl being used by him that probably doesn't know the real person he is.
Abortions are harder on you than anyone else so just be kind to yourself. Consider alternative birth control than the pill or consider the mini pill if you think you're ever going to have unprotected sex with someone that you're not in an exclusive relationship with. ❤️
Consider the reasons you kept trusting and being manipulated by this person. You mentioned that you did a background check and that you said no and changed your mind. Why? To me that's the most important lesson for you to learn about yourself because you obviously had concerns, you just pushed them away or didn't trust yourself. Understanding that, will ensure it never happens again. Look at the situation and past for a bit so that you can learn and grow...then look forward to the future which is better than how you feel right now. ❤️
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