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Sometimes i believe the pedophile who caused me and my daughter PTSD posts here. My relative wants very much for charges to be pressed but I really would like to just turn my back and ‘never look back’. Never Look Back is my new mantra. It’s worked for me so far : )
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ReplyYou do know and understand the seriousness of the meaning behind ped0phile, right? It is not a freaking joke to be using that word and going around calling people a ped0phile loosely.
Are they an actual ped0phile, is there proof and evidence that they are? Have they ever been charged and convicted of a serious crime of such? What's the first name of the supposed ped0phile that you believe posts on here? I want to know because I take it very seriously and would not want anyone else to get harmed. In my personal experience, I believe that I was a victim of grooming but did not know it at the time.
I only understood much later on in my adult life what it is to be groomed and such. I consented to having se*ual intercourse with an adult man who was probably in his 30s but I do know for sure his age. However, I do know for a fact he was very much older,wiser than I was and knew exactly what he was doing.
I was a naive 15-year-old girl at the time this happened and did not fully understand that it was not normal behaviour.
There is a reason why I did what I did at the time, but I do not feel comfortable getting into it much further and explain myself.
I did not end up doing anything about it anyway and there is no point, as there is very little to go on that had happened way over a decade ago. Do I hate the man who was grooming me and had s*x with me, no. I hate what he did to me and I wish I was better protected. I have people very close to me who have also experience the same, it is not a joke and it is serious. It does impact people's lives who experienced this on an emotional and psychological level.
It messes you up when you are still young, growing and your brain has not reached its full development yet.
I do not go around sharing and speaking about this particular experience of mine to anyone because it is not easy to talk about. The only reason I am bring this up is because this post reminded me of my own past, this place is suppose be anonymous and ''safe'' to share.
I will not bring it up again ever but this is an exception. Most of the people who are close to me do not know this happened to me, except those who found out and were there at the time.
If they caused you and your daughter PTSD are the police already involved?
Why were there never charges in the first place, if this was a very serious problem for you and your daughter?
Just be safe with whatever you do if you are serious and do suspect this.
All the best.
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