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I had a one very good online friend. We both are 20,
We used to spend hours on voice rooms everyday talking about random things, we literally laugh,shout,and go crazy whenever we meet each other. It was not love because ever since the beginning she was treating me like as if I'm her little bro, and I'm OK with it. It was all good up until couple of weeks ago when she shifted from her home to hostel. At the first week she sounded very excited to share whatever happens in her new college and hostel. During that time i was happen became so close with her because she was the only person i talk with. (Yes i ghosted couple of my other frds for weeks just to talk with this gurl). And exactly a week ago shared my picture to her, After sharing the picture it was all good for next two days because During those two days we decided to meet in real life (weekend). After that suddenly from nowhere she was not replying to my messages as she use to do before.(she literally left my messages unread for straight 4-6 hours.) These things made me to over think about many things and I was like literally going crazy. Imagining many things like, what if she got other new friend who is better than me or what if she does want to talk with me because of my bad looks etc..., all these anxiety and over thinking ended up on me deciding to not go to meet her in real life and eventually the meeting day has come I was sitting in my room. She called me before leaving the hostel. (she called me after ghosting me for straight 9 hours without sleep time) and she started asking whether you coming not, I said didn't, and texted her I really thought you don't wanna meet me in real life. Then I tried to call her again, she didn't picked the call but she texted saying "I'm alright ". After this incident my stupid mind started to go crazy that ended up me sending a voice message to her asking "why are you not talking with me much often nowadays. Some thing suspicious". And right after sending this voice note I went even more crazy. Which caused me texting her one more time saying "I'll text you after a week bye bye". And I deleted that application right away and went for sleep. While I was sleep she I tried to reach me On a call which I haven't seen. And i tried to reach her again but this time she refuse to pick up call. Then as per the plan I ghosted her for a week. The moment i came back to the same application after a week. I saw only one voice note sent by her saying "you are the one who is being weird you said you'll come but you haven't".then i tried to text her again (I texted to her as if like nothing happend) but it's been 52 hours since i sent my first message. I texted her three time in last few days. she is not replying to my texts anymore. I want with talk with her like we use do back in days. Seem like I lost my frd. :(
Now I'm afraid whether I lost my only frd i got in my life .( im afraid because this girl has many friends to talk with. And I'm pretty sure that she never had a even a single thought of me in a whole week.)
Somebody help me I don't want to make a call to her because I know she is not going to pick my calls.
(Forgive me for my bad english)
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see, if she had this same feeling for you, she might have responded. But she didn't. That means she's actually ghosting you. Just let some time pass away. You need to relax first and stop being an evident despo first of all. Frndships and relationships takes time to build on a strong foundation. If it was meant to be, it will happen. Otherwise, just move on dude. Life is too short to get stuck becoz of a single person.
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