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I like this guy I met in my college class but he is Muslim. He asked me for my number and we have been talking for about a month know. We hung out and went for a walk and then to a restaurant. At the restaurant, towards the end he asked me if I was Christian and I told him I was atheist. He said oh ok and then the “date” ended afterwards. Before the restaurant he’s called me gorgeous and a beautiful over text. We’ve been texting almost every day and studying for a class together about twice a week on top of sitting together at lectures. I’ve started to like him but I’m worried that if gone too far in my feelings and I know he is Muslim. He told me his parents and family are strict Muslims and that he is Muslim. He didn’t specify if he was strict or not. I am unsure what to do. I like him as a guy because he is so polite, kind, and a sweet person but since he is Muslim I am unsure if he will want to continue seeing me. I am also starting to develop a crush and don’t want to end up with my heart broken.
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leave him, he wont be able to marry you and we aren't meant to date anyways. if he truly liked you he wouldn't involve you in his haram doings rather he would want to protect you from it. I understand that you like him, but leave him for the sake of your own happiness.
ReplyAs him if he can accept an atheist as a girlfriend, or ask him for knowledge about his religion and see if you can believe in it.
ReplyThere is no love molecule. You cannot see love, sell love, hold it in your hands, and you won't find it in an autopsy. Yet so many endless decisions are made in our lives based on this force called love.
God is love.
Now, that said, you should certainly explore Islam and Sharia law. You should confirm whether it is ok for Muslim men to still have more than 1 wife; I believe so long as they can divide their time and resources equally amongst the wives then it's ok to have more than 1 wife. After your research it will ultimately be up to you to decide if you're ok living under a strict religious code.
Best of luck.
Courtesy notice: the following includes a reference to a book that contains writings over 2000 years old which are mostly parables about human nature, both vile human nature as well as moral human nature, parables that are meant to teach us to learn and grow, including the teachings of Christ Jesus. No religion required, and better yet: no public displays of devotion required, although the former and latter are admirable if practiced freely out of one's own free will and without the threat of being beheaded. Some bullies will label this "trolling", so "change the channel" now if of no interest to you.
1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
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