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I know I am not attractive. I can admit it. I will never feel pretty, or anything like that. I have acne, an annoying voice, and no ass or breasts. Ik I am pretty young but I always felt like this. I like a boy and he is kinda a popular guy unlike me. I am bisexual and I used to like a girl (before I liked the guy) and she is so pretty and guys like her. But I would not have a chance with her. I want to date the guy but I feel like people will say “Eww your dating her?” As soon as I start to feel good about myself I start to feel insecure. Some of my friends have many ex’s and we are only 14. You may think “you are too young to be thinking about this shit.” But I just feel so outcasted.
Last year I became friends with the guy I liked and when my friend told him I liked him on the last day of school he seemed happy. I thought maybe something could work out and I could feel happy and I could also date someone I liked. When we came back to school we didn’t say a word, he kinda glanced over at me a couple times. But then he started dating a pretty, rich, short, curly haired girl, he was out of my League. I knew I wasn’t gonna get him. I also had no classes with him. After him and his girlfriend started dating, his friend made fun of me for not dating him. The guy I liked and his girlfriend broke up like 3 months because they got into an augment. I wasn’t taking great care of myself because I have been stressed but, I came to school on Friday and I was a little nicer then I usually looked. I wasn’t trying to empress him but I felt good that he looked at me twice and idk why. What do u think? Also I am not trying to sound like a pick me girl saying that I wasn’t ugly I am actually just insecure.
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Hey back when I was in school I never felt attractive in the slightest bit. I had mental issues going on and I got into drugs. Please don't turn to drugs that was the worst decision I ever made. But I hardly ever even showered back then. I want you to feel good about yourself. Even if putting on makeup makes you feel better then do it. Do things normal people do. I was an outcast and I still am. But if you would feel better being like the preps then you should go for it. But please don't get into drugs because I know they screwed me all up.
ReplyIdk why I got flagged but just do things that make you feel good.
ReplyI used to relate to you in the first paragraph, it's exactly something that I would say. My main advice is to just focus on trying to love yourself before having someone love you. Your body is beautiful no matter what, and having no boobs or ass won't change that. And plus, you're young and puberty will continue to change your body over the years. Many people believe their voices are annoying but they're just not used to it yet, so I doubt yours is. And acne doesn't make you ugly and its natural for teenagers -- and something that you can change if you hate it.
About the guy, if you like him then you can try subtle things like smiling in the hallways or starting small conversations over chat. But it's alright if you choose to distance yourself from him. And if you do end up dating him then don't worry about what people say, and most likely nobody will. The only people who would say that type of stuff are jealous and nasty people.
I know your friends have a bunch of exes and it feels like you're left out and maybe lonely, but trust me it's not a good thing that they are. At my school, girls who have dated a bunch of boys get talked shit about and called past around and run through. Just leave dating for someone who you actually like, and not run towards boys or girls just for the sake of dating -- because it's a much better flex to date someone in a good, healthy, long and mature relationship than any of your friends' ones.
ReplyI wrote this, thank u to anyone who answered 💗
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