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Me & my bf have been dating since 1 yr. Our winter vacations have just begun & we've both returned home. We were studying together online when he noticed my pfp... it's V from BTS. He told me to change it. He knew that I was am ARMY long before we started dating. I refused as I didn't see any problem in keeping a photo of V as my pfp. He has repeatedly asked me to change my pfp. He says that he finds it disrespectful. He also told me that he hates BTS and even after that I've done this. I don't see anything wrong or disrespectful in it.
Would I be in the wrong for not changing my pfp???
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I think that a better thing to do than to figure out if you are in the wrong or not is to ask him why he finds it disrespectful. Then maybe you two can reach an understanding about it.
A hunch of mine that could be wrong is that he probably felt insecure and this sudden change of his feelings towards BTS is maybe because his friends teased him or mentioned something like having your partner put celebrities as their profile picture is weak or the like. Anyway these are just guesses and could be or not be true.
If you really don't want to change your pfp that is okay like its your account not his, maybe you can reassure him than even if V is your pfp you stil love him and would choose him, if that is true.
All in all he can't force you to change your stuff and likes and dislikes, so just be you.
Hope the both of you patch things up. Love is always better than hate most of the times. Wishing the both of you to understand both sides and to be kind to one another.
Happy winter break!
ReplyThank you so much!!
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