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I saw a post that said “I hate how pathetic you made me feel and that made me hate myself” and nothing has ever made more sense to me than that. I don’t even think you understand that you were turning the situation onto me. I called you out on multiple things and you got defensive about it when you preach about communicating and being honest when you don’t even do it yourself. I hope we can get past it but I ain’t gonna ever look at you the same and I hope it’s not gonna bite me in the ass for being nice. I took a step back and even apologized for some things I said but the situation got blown out of proportion because you can’t handle criticism. Please don’t let this be a waste of time cause you’ll just end up as someone who I care about but never want to talk to again. Am I just wasting time? It makes me think if I’m just wasting my time just for me to not even look at you the same in the end. Fuck maybe you’re thinking the same exact thing about me.
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I think when people try to find all sorts of lame things wrong with someone they’re deflecting on the fact they don’t want to point out the obvious, is you’ve got somewhere better you feel there is to be and you like blaming the poor person themselves rather than tell them this. It is not hard to show people you care or spend any time with them no matter what your circumstance is. If you care about someone ‘not having time’ is not something that’s even thought of, or spending that time listing their faults is not something that’s even done at all. Good luck to you and I hope you find someone you only think better things of every day and makes you want to spend every moment you can with them rather than contemplating everything that’s wrong with them. Good luck.
ReplyThank you for your message but I wasn’t picking at ‘flaws’ about this person and just throwing it in their face. Of course you don’t know the backstory and I wouldn’t expect you to cause were on an anonymous site that’d be weird. We simply got into an argument not related to our being if that makes sense. Although I did confront towards the end of the conversation why they weren’t answering my questions earlier asking about the assumptions they kept insinuating. I didn’t get an answer and granted I think I understand that people don’t like being confronted or talked to in a heated moment. It was just a big miscommunication and I have on another day tried to explain why I was upset and said I’m willing to understand more of their side rather than sweeping it under the rug. I haven’t gotten a response yet but hopefully it resolves itself soon. I’m sorry? I didn’t think my post came off in a “ugh what a noob but I’m not gonna talk about my beef and degrade this person cause I can” sort of way. Well that’s all that I can say about pffft of course there’s more to the story but that’s literally the gist of it.
ReplyI reread the post and I understand why it came off like that PFFT I did not mean it like that. I could’ve reworded it differently
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