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So I'm in 6th grade and my mom has always been at the back of my neck watching, listening, and commenting on everything I do wear and look like, I have started to wear baggy clothes recently I'm not even wearing them everyday somedays I wear skirts and stuff not always bang stuff, but she loves to comment on my outfits "you look homeless go change" " why do you always dress like that" "you dress like a boy are you trans" so she went on my phone and found my I am sober app which showed that I SH'ed and she said "you hurt yourself that's pathetic if I found out you hurt yourself your going to be grounded for years" also I searched on my phone websites to vent and she checked my phone and she was like "I'm taking your phone computer and tv and your door if you vent you should vent to me" which I've tried I've tried to communicate with her but she either shrugs me off or yells at me so I can't vent to her I can't even have privacy I just can't wait to move out!
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6th grade?! That's absolutely crazy. Your mother invading your privacy like that, is just a major boundary problem. Wearing baggy clothes isn't considered being trans! It's what you wear, and if you like it, then go for it! Like kiddo, you're too young to even be considered having your own privacy invaded like that. You're about to be a teenager, and your mom is treating you like a kid. :/
You should vent to us if anything comes up.
My own privacy is also invaded but on a scale they say it's "tight" for my parents, and that I should wear a dress or a skirt instead. That always make me feel dysphoric and it sucks because I love wearing masc clothing to suit with my own body. Wearing skirts is another thing, but that's only if I feel like it, and sometimes if I wear skirts for a long time, my dad would ask me why am I wearing skirts for the past days and not a dress, like come on. I get it you're all so religious on me, but it's a form of a religious clothing is it not to you?!
I'm so sorry you have to deal with that, just take it easy, and try just TRY to tell your mother on how you feel about this, and keep doing this till she finally understands you. If needed, tell your friends.
-MRTS
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