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Can you give me one reason, just one reason I should be proud of being a woman? I don't actually take pride in things given to me by birth, such as gender, race, place of birth. Pride must be taken in our achievements, though I don't like the word pride for that as well because it's more of a show-off type of word.
But in this context, by "pride", I mean what are some positive qualities specifically about women which don't exist in men? (I'm not talking about biological qualities, I mean in terms of social life).
These days I'm starting to wish I were born as a male instead. I wish I were a man. (No I'm not trans, I identity and feel like a woman.... Let's not get down that rabbit hole).
Because the thing is evil exists in both genders. There are men/fathers/husbands who are druggies, rapists , beaters, abusers, cheap-minded men.
But then there are also good men . Men who condemn violence. Fight against violence to protect us. Sacrifice their life for us. Take care of animals, kids, have good intentions, are loving and caring etc.
And as for women? I try very hard to find a female role model..be it in my personal life , professional life, on social media, celebrities, academia.... Literally any aspect of this world.
I can't find a woman whom I would consider as my role model. It's always men.
And all the women who I know, be it teachers, professors, family members/relatives, strangers, neighbors, and even those online... Are all incredibly toxic, jealous, greedy, hateful, sick , evil-minded, manipulative, criminals...
I'm surprised how on Earth there's a stereotype that women are "caring, loving, sweet, harmless, innocent" etc.
Thanks.
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Even if the women in your life aren't stellar, you could be the one to set the standard :) Be an example of love, of care, of light to the world. You can focus on being the type of person that IS a positive role model. Getting others to change is a tall order, but changing our behavior/thinking to be the best, most loving and caring person we can be is something we ourselves are in control of.
ReplyYou know people aren't perfect, right? If you are needing someone to inspire you today, check your history books.
But, you also realize that maybe you are looking in the wrong places, yes? If you want to know someone who is doing good, then look for them in the right place. Sure, there are teachers who are doing great things out there, but they're getting paid to do it. Look for the ones who are giving and kind without payment.
They are there. There's just not as many of them anymore. I want to be there, but I have a family I have to care for. I'll get to those places again one day though. Maybe I will see you there?
ReplyIs that the history books all written by men?
ReplyProud of you
ReplyBe your own woman. Patriarchal societies have always excluded women from being recognised for their achievements.
ReplyThere's a stereotype that women are caring etc as they usually have a maternal instinct, otherwise the population would not continue if not for that.
ReplyHow come it's OK for you to write that you hate women but if I were to write that I hate Black people or Arabs, or transgenders I'd be cancelled? Race and sex/gender is the same thing.
ReplyI agree with you. I've said I hate men though and I wasn't cancelled.
ReplyIt seems that it's acceptable to hate on the sexes but God forbid you do that with race or transgenders.
Replybecause HATE is boring. Nobody cares about what people hate, there is plenty of it in this world. LOVE, now that is whats rare. hate is destruction, dark, musty, lonely - a comlpete waste of energy. Hate is where energy goes to die. Love, wow. Love is the most powerful force on earth
ReplyI have a female cousin who hates women and says it is because they gossip. But I think it is because she has no friends.
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