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Need to know if what i am feeling is valid or am i being an ass.
5 months ago · 1 · frustrated , +2 · Explicit
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So this story started 5 yrs ago when my bro got married and his wife came along. My parents never really liked the alliance (an arranged marriage btw) as such but it was me who convinced them that she might be the right choice for him [i went out of my way to convince them, why? cuz i wanted my bro to be happy]. I tried my best to mingle with her, like i introduced her to all my friends, took her out w my friends to lunches, tried to take her along with my gang to watch films (which she never agreed to come by making LAME cliche excuses), tried to talk about likes and dislikes, anything to bond over, like maybe any tv shows or even movie gossips at this point. I used to ask her how her day was everyday, was always even there to offer her my shoulder to cry on when she was stressed with her work politics. But no! she was always cold and cordial towards me but always enthusiastic while talking to my brother. I asked my brother one day if she's got any problem with me, he was like shes new to the family, give her time. She slowly started turning my brother against my parents and me and he eventually left the house and started spreading disgusting rumors in my extended family saying that i never wanted my bro to get married to that woman in the first place and when she came along, i had made a master plan to kick them out. My brother's behaviour over the last few years changed SOOOO MUCHH!! OMG. Like i remember how nice he was to everyone around him. He helped out his friends in need (not any gold digger kind, just ones going though tough times). He used to say that we all would live together in one side happily and he loved my mom the most. But after getting married, for a buying a 100INR choco lava cake, he and his wife have long secret discussions on the side. I mean wtf? am i a begger on the road? And he disrepects my mom so much, i mean to such a extent that he said she never did anything for him and that she never wanted him to be happy. He never even shares one detail of his professional life with her and NEVER gives her credit for anything. I mean our mom literally sacrificed everything, raised us alone as my dad was never the typical father kind.. He was always away at work. My mom is not toxic, she is a very loving person and she literally treated his wife like her own daughter. He literally shares every single shit with his in laws and treats them like his parents when they are clearly SNAKES!! His in lawseven disrespected me saying that i dont matter at all and when i tried to point out that their daughter tried to create a rift between us, they said their daughter never makes a mistake and they started abusing me and went on to question my parents upbringing. Omg there is so so so much to say but i cannot reveal such stuff online even tho its anonymous. Just tell me is this fair?? I lost a brother all bcoz of a bitch and i never ever interferred in their matters! never!! How do people even have the heart to separate people from their family, that too when there was no toxicity directed towards them??
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Hey i totally understand where you are coming from! i went through similar stuff! what can we do? Its sad but its the reality. People are evil these days. But that does not mean that we should stoop down to their level. Our only motto is to stay humble, happy and not hurt others at least intentionally. Everyone will get their taste of their own medicine. Karma is real. So dont you worry, they will realise their mistakes and regret hurting you, the only catch is you may or may not see it happening in front of your eyes. Just keep your faith in god and move forward. You have wonderful times ahead my friend. Godspeed!
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