I don't know what to do

I honestly don't know what to do so I come here hoping someone can help. I'm a big girl always have been.

I wanna start out by saying I have a good relationship with my boyfriend but yesterday has me questioning some things I had try to share with my boyfriend that I feel ignored by the household ( 2 friends are our roommates) and how while I'm in the middle of doing the dishes I ask if there is anything dishes they have for my to wash I get ignored so I finish the dishes and no longer a sec after me finishing them they dring more dishes to the sink my boyfriend passed it off by saying it had to me too so I said okay but what about basic respect for each other cuz I heard all 3 of them refer to me as "Someone" it's usually then they don't think I can hear them and it's almost always shit talking my boyfriend tells me "Yeah i do it to when im not in a good mood so and how our roommate D is all down for me leaving you" I brought up why did you say "Well someone drank 5 sodas today so I don't think I'll be getting more" when you know the 5 soda cans been left in the room for weeks I had just brought them out that day he said "i didn't know" I thought that would be the end of the discussion til he ruined what was supposed to be a big surprise for me he said how he was going to propose to me on the 11th now I don't even know if I wanna go on the 11th