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Me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship since six months. Everything is going smoothly. But my bf has started being very touchy. He pinches my nipples, even slaps them sometimes. He keeps rubbing my vagina and also fingers them. He one day, told me that he is very stressed and would like it if I gave him a blowjob. I tried doing it, but his length was just so huge and thick, that I could barely take his head in my mouth. He got really frustrated. He cursed saying that I can't even suck him off properly and that I'm useless and then left the apartment. Idk what to do. What do you guys think I should be doing?
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Dude I'd break up with him because he's just using you as a sexual object. You need to remember that you're human just like everyone else and you deserve respect.
ReplyYou should give a thought about are you going to continue this relationship or not. Girl, wake up! Your worth should not be measured like this! And who is he to tell you such stuff or dare to try to measure your worth?
ReplyLearn what a normal healthy adult relationship is and your relationship isn't it.
ReplyCongrats on being in a committed relationship. Hopefully the 2 of you continue to stay committed and based on mutual trust, respect and love, and eventually get married since marriage is the best structure for children. Children thrive in a functional marriage and family.
That said, men are very sexual in nature, and nowadays tend to want to replay scenes they see in porn. But, if you are not comfortable with this, please communicate your boundaries. Someday when y'all get married, there will be plenty of time to be more adventurous to spice things up. Best of luck.
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Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
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Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
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