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i noticed the past few months that my behavior towards sexual topics always end up making me feel weird and uncomfortable.
I googled about that many times but there was never an answer were i could relate to. I did question if i could be asexual but when it comes to imagining things with fictional characters i can feel good, but that only lasts for a few seconds and then i get this sudden uncomfortable feeling like i just did something wrong.
When my friends start to talk about their sexual experiences i get a weird feeling as well i don't even know how to describe that feeling i just suddenly feel extremely uncomfortable. Sometimes they joke about my sexual relationship with my boyfriend and i HATE it that people just think about two other people having sex just because they're in a relationship, that thought alone makes me so uncomfortable.
Especially the classmates from my boyfriend, they make it their whole personality and always end up making jokes to my boyfriend about us having sex and stuff and that alone makes me wanna end the relationship.
Even though my bf is the best thing that has ever happened to me.
It doesn't bother him that i don't want to do anything sexual but i just hate being seen as a sex object all the damn time.
I hate that everything always ends up being sexualized.
I can't deal with these kind of thoughts anymore it destroys me.
What if i just wanna wear this cute top because i like it?
Nope, sexualized cuz get what i have boobs.
What if i wanna wear this cute dress because I LOVE DRESSES??
nope. Instant cat calling all the damn time
Even when a man just looks at me for too long i get uncomfortable and mad.
I wish i could just disappear, be invisible so i can wear whatever the fuck i want without feeling CONSTANTLY SEXUALIZED.
sometimes i hate being born in a female body.
and that makes me upset, why should i hate being myself just because men like to sexualize everything on a woman's body.
I'm sick of it.
The constant disrespect makes me wanna end things soon cause i can't keep up with this and that makes me sad because i actually like my life sometimes </3
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Stand up for yourself ! tell them its not cool or respectful when people talk about girls like this and if they try to say smth about u,just not allow them to do so. If they will keep abusing u tell your boyfriend, that u not cool with this kind of jokes. If he won’t talk with his classmates to figure things out, then just brake up, bc that means he has no respect towards u.
Replywill do thank u <3
ReplyYou should read Miriam Stoppards - the magic of sex. It's very enlightening and helped me with the many questions and feelings I had regarding sex.
Replyi'll look into it thanks!<3
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