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sometimes i wish i was never in a relationship. its pretty recent. like two weeks ago but it feels like weve been dating for months. ive had bad mental health before and i never really got helped with it. i thought i was doing so much better by the time he asked me to be his gf. so i said yes. before saying yes, i told him this and much more and he still asked me again. he didnt care. but now 2 weeks later and im crying and overthinking. hes my first bf and i want him to be happy especially with me but i cant even be happy with myself. he reassures me but i just feel like a loser gf. im not confident enough. he deserves so much better than this. but i also love him and dont want him to leave. sometimes it just feels like too much to be in a relationship. but i love him so much. more than myself. how do i fix this?
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You need to learn how to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else. Going by what you've written here, I can tell you feel very insecure about yourself. You shouldn't approach your boyfriend for reassurance too much, as he will eventually get tired of that; such behavior will put a strain on any relationship. I can't give you a single solution for your feelings of insecurity, but you can try to see yourself as other people see you. You might feel better knowing that everyone else is dealing with their insecurities, too. We're only human.
Also, don't worry if your relationship with your boyfriend doesn't work out. Most people don't marry their first loves. You'll be okay.
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