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I don't know why I did this, a new flatmate moved into my previous apartment and we were becoming friends. I lied to him that I lived in another country for a few years growing up when I didn't. I don't know why I did it and what I was trying to achieve. Long story short, we started dating and now want to get married. I know this lie maybe won't ever come to the forefront but I feel very guilty and want to move ahead from it. Try to understand my own psychology. Telling him will shatter his trust and I have no explanation for why I said it. Please help.
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Tell him your imagination was running away with you when you said you lived in another country. And tell him that you think you said it because at the time you wished you had lived in that country, and you wanted it to somehow be real. Then apologize for lying, promise to not lie again, and keep the promise.
ReplyTell the truth. I’ve been on both sides of that and it’s really hard no matter who’s shoes your in. But I promise that not saying anything will eat you up from the inside. Be honest. Don’t excuse or minimize. Just own what you did, as the other replies said explain why you did it, and apologize.
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