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(This was written by a unexüirienced gay man)
He makes me feel so cared about and he doesnt even know.. He does little gestures and it makes me so happy, even though those things arent something to appreciate. I love the way he acts and I just urghhh.
But he is just a crush and I am scared that I will now unconsciously distance myself because I have done it before.. I want to be more then just a friend to him but I dont even know how to start a conversation with him alone. I just kinda talk to other people and wait till he joins the convo too...
One thing I really love is that when I (jokingly) asked in a server if anyone wants to have matching pfp because I found a nice one, he said yes and now we match..
Please help me get closer to him.
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I have some people in my life, friends/relatives, who are gay, so based on my humble experience: don't confuse friendship with romance. This goes for anyone, no matter their sexual orientation. But, there is another layer here obviously, and he might not be gay, and therefore he will very confused and might react abruptly. Find out if he's interested in girls, if he has a girl crush. If yes, then don't cross the line between friendship and romance. But, if over time you discover he's gay, then feel free to show care, earn trust and respect, and mutual love will form. Best of luck.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
And since death is the only guarantee in life, Mary, Mother of Christ, intercede for us with your prayers, now, and at the hour of our death.
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