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like most other teenagers, im insecure asf. and unlike most other teenagers, my boyfriend is supportive, encouraging and overall a really lovely person. really. everybody loves him. hes the one in all the friend groups, the one invited to everything. and for most of it, i dont care, im not quite a people person. but this one girl, i dont know if im just being stupid and biased here, but they just i dont know. starting out simple and coincidental, all the group projects we've had in the past two years, theyre together. he's at her house right now for a ca project. and we get to choose our groups, he's never chosen me. though i heard the justifications for that about 7 times and yeah okay whatever. theyve gone out for many movies, many mall trips very frequently. hes at her house with a few other guys to play basketball because she has a whole court over there. hes there for her birthday party that i wasnt invited to, and ive been invited to only one of their many movie dates (with the other guys too its not just them), and that day, they barely spoke to each other. im scared that im not good enough for him, and he could like her. and why wouldnt he? theyre both into the same stuff, shes the best basketball player in the girls team, shes sporty, pretty, smart asf, shes not all fucked up like me and he wont have to deal with all the baggage i bring to the relationship.
the funny thing is, she was my first best friend, as ride or die that 10 year olds could be. then we fell out, because she grew to hate me because her parents would compare our grades and i got good grades back then. then our classes changed, and they (her and my bf) were in the same class for about 3 years. now we're seniors, and all in the same class. pretty sure she still hates me, though we make conversations now and then.
am i overthinking as usual? is there something to this? i dont have anyone to confide in, bit sad im oversharing here, but you guys could help me maybe :'
me again.
months later and im still like this. its unfair that my insecurity ruins good things. i still dont know whats going on there with them, but she sends recordings of her singing and he gushes about how good it sounds to me. idk how i should react to that? am i supposed to be happy for her? yeah she sounds like an angel, an angel who sends her songs only to you, only you. she plays the guitar and its like the world is playing a cruel joke on me. is this me being too muddled in this to think clearly? like what is your opinion on this whole thing i wanna cry lol
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You should talk to your bf about this and tell him how his behaviour makes you feel. He is being very selfish and has no respect at all for your feelings. This looks like he wants you for one thing and her for another and has no care for anyone as long as he gets things his way. He is having his cake and eating it. If he doesn't turn solely to you after you talk to him he isn't worth being with so dump him and tell him to stay with her and find another guy who won't treat you like this. You should not allow yourself to have anyone treat you badly. Lift your aspirations.
Replyive tried talking to him, it always ends up w me feeling dumb, like hes so nice and sweet, hes like astounded that im saying that. he hasnt even directly treated me badly, its just things like this... and could it be that all this is normal friend things and im being irrational? this is my first relationship, and we've been dating a year and a month now, and the only issue ive had is this, him and her... and i dont think hes the type of guy to be selfish? but like hes just too nice, maybe she likes him and hes not backing off. i cant be the gf who makes her bf stay away from girl best friends :' i appreciate you sm tho, i havent talked about this to anyone thank you :'
Replyand to top it all of, i think im ace, so theres another way i wont be good enough for him yay
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