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So, I'm a teen in a family of 5. My mum, my dad, my two siblings, and me being the oldest child. I believe i have autism, (Before anyone says anything, I've researched it for months on symptoms and various parts of the spectrum and clear evidence of me possibly having it while others have actually suggested I get a diagnosis which i plan on soon), and Turns out it really loves affecting me in my voice.
The situation is I'm trying to sleep, my two siblings (Mind you, half blood related because this is main key info) are in the next room blasting videos of some adults acting childish for clout. Since I'm tired, to the point i don't want to talk, I go downstairs where my dad is (who is the parent I'm not related to. And I've gotten over finding out, It's odd at times but idrc) HOWEVER. When he asks me "Are you okay?" and I respond with "No, those two upstairs are being too noisy. Those little gremlins, those kids who i'm somehow related to" (Personality-wise was how I was referring, and I was joking.)
And then he takes offense like "Shut the fuck up, get over that." and is just telling me I'm just being dramatic and shit while I'm repeatedly saying "I meant personality-wise."
So now I am once again going to be tattled on by my dad to my mum, who will most likely talk to me like a lecture, while my siblings are STILL playing dumb shows no matter anybody says. and now I'm seen as the pissy bad guy who "can't get over a simple fact" which isn't fucking simple if I found out a month ago, and it was about how shitty my biological dad was.
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This type of situation is difficult, no doubt. In my humble experience, half siblings from different moms have a tougher time having harmony than half-siblings from same mom. Moms, ultimately, tend to own their kids love and affection over life, usually, not always. Try to keep your bond with your mom, and try to avoid conflict with your dad, since he loves your mom also. In no time, you'll be of adult age and can move out if you have the means, hopefully you earn some type of education, and find a rewarding career. Romantic love, of course, will follow at some point, when you're ready, physically and emotionally available.
Courtesy notice: the following includes a reference to a book that contains writings over 2000 years old which are mostly parables about human nature, both vile human nature as well as moral human nature, parables that are meant to teach us to learn and grow, including the teachings of Christ Jesus. No religion required, and better yet: no public displays of devotion required, although the former and latter are admirable if practiced freely out of one's own free will and without the threat of being beheaded. Some bullies will label this "trolling", so "change the channel" now if of no interest to you.
1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
And since death is the only guarantee in life, Mary, Mother of Christ, intercede for us with your prayers, now, and at the hour of our death.
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