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Hiii. I really have a lot in my chest that I want to share about but can’t with anyone. My family has a bit traditional thoughts like dating and sex before marriage is a huge no no for them. But during my teen times, in the whim of moment, I have dated manyy people gone through breakups had many boyfriends but I have never been physical but as I approached my 20 I had a boyfriend of 3 years and we thought we were gonna end up together and we had sex but eventually as time passed I realised that I don’t really feel that connection with him yk like we don’t have coomom goals and my feelings for him were more like of friends and I couldn’t be independent in thay relationship so I broke up with him to trust myself more be more independent work on myself.
And Today I had a conversation with my mom that I was going on a trip with my friends and she adviced me saying “Youngsters today switch from one relationship to another, have sex, get drunk but that’s not okay. Life, specially for a woman can be tough if om wrong decision is taken” And I regretted everything. I cannot change anything what I have done in my life and yess I am trying mt best everyday to be a better person, a better daughter to be more kinder to the world around and I have been doing so as well. But I can’t change whatever happened in the past and I can’t get this regret out of my chest.
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Why should your family's values be YOUR values? Your values are your values. You cannot expect your values to always align with your family's values. That's not realistic.
ReplyYou wouldn't have as much stress if you realised that you are not here to people-please your family or society. YOU decide what your values are. So you don't actually have a problem. If you are an adult, your dating and sex life is YOUR business, no-one else's.
ReplyStop letting your family and society dictate to you what YOUR values should be. Why is THEIR problem YOUR problem?
ReplyI did that when I was young and enjoyed myself. This is our culture.
ReplyAfter being couped up in school for all of those years no wonder young people let their hair down and do these things after they leave.
ReplyDo you regret it because you feel bad yourself, or do you regret it because someone made you feel bad? Just something to think about. Your parent's opinions don't have to be yours.
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