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My boyfriend is very lustful. I love him so much and I know he loves me. I don’t want to break up but I just don’t know how to tell him I don’t want to give in to any lustful temptations because I am Christian and I refuse to give the enemy a grasp on me. He doesn’t believe in god, he’s atheist. We are a long distance couple. He often tries to be sexual with me and sometimes I can’t help but give in, but god gave me a wake up call to the fact that it’s a sin and that I can’t praise him with the same hands I lust with. Please help.
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I guess you should try to tell him, that even though he may not believe what you believe in and you don't want to give in to lust, he should respect when you say no. Your consent is very important in this and trying to seduce you and talk sexually to you just to get his way is not really asking for consent, but trying to get what he wants by teasing you and your hormones so that you'll give in. It's up to you how you tell him, but try to say how you really feel, because that's what he sounds like right now. I hope you get through this.
ReplyThank you so much. It’s greatly appreciated
ReplyHe took it really well and we’ve decided to make compromises in our relationship. Thank you
ReplyI'm sorry it took quite a long time before I went active here. I am glad to hear that. I hope that you will keep on standing firm on your beliefs. I hope that you always remember that you don't have to try and please everyone else for people to stay, it might not be so much of irrelevance, but even I know that it's hard to set or even stand firm on your own boundaries. I hope that it goes well for the both of you and may you have a healthy relationship for the both of you that helps you both grow :)))
ReplyYour boyfriend should know at the outset what your values are.
ReplyIn relationships, people have different boundaries surrounding sex. Some people want it a lot. Some people want it only occasionally. Others don't want it at all (rarely).
Then there are people like you who would want it, but you want to wait for marriage. That's very commendable that you know where you stand.
I hope your boyfriend can respect your wishes, because it's not love if he doesn't.
ReplyIf you don't break up you will end up having sex. He is very pushy and not respecting you.
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