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My close friend has recently went through a breakup. I was patient and understanding when she cut off herself to the world. I've messaged her countless times already especially since today, for us, the 2nd semester starts. I've seen her grow more active in her social medias and from the looks of it she frequently visits our other friends house. I feel like I dont have to be angry at her for ghosting me when we had an appointment we agreed together when she last replied to me last week ago because she's still going through a lot, but I just feel hurt and confused that she's not replying to me. What should I do? Should I not just message her anymore? Im still concerned and need answers on why she seems to be only doing this to me. Why is it so easy for her to ghost me in real life and social media. I just feel so insignificant.
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ReplyAsk her why she is doing this.
Replyit's understandable that you feel hurt and confused about your friend's behavior, especially when it seems like she's engaging with others but not responding to your messages.
Give her some space Understand that your friend may need time to process her emotions and heal from the breakup. It's possible that she is not intentionally avoiding you, but rather trying to navigate her own feelings.
When you feel ready, you can send her a message expressing your concern and how you're feeling. Be honest but understanding. Let her know that you value your friendship and that you are there for her. It's possible that she might not be aware of how her actions are affecting you. Give her the opportunity to share her perspective on the situation.express your feelings without placing blame like tell her that you have feel hurt and how much you value the friendship. If she indicates that she needs more time or space, respect her wishes.People do heal at their own pace pushing them might not work but just make sure to her you wil be there for her whenever in need
Stay connected with other friends While you're concerned about your close friend, it's essential to maintain connections with other friends and support systems
ReplyPut less pressure on her and put more fun in the time you share.
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