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About a month ago, I asked this girl, Jane, to go skiing with me through text. It was that first time I ever talked to her but I operated under the assumption that she already wanted to go. I kept the text completely about logistics (for example, do you have equipment). She never texted me back.
I took another girl, Mary, instead. We had a great time.
One of Jane's friends is named Lynn. Lynn invited me to spend the day with her.
I got annoyed when Jane didn't reply at all. But it went away after a week. I was really nervous when I asked for her number but, now I only got slightly nervous as I drove closer and closer to where Lynn was because of Jane. She's very pretty and she has a very good reputation among my elderly friends.
So I guess my crush on Jane has disappeared. She is still very pretty but I'm just disillusioned now I guess.
When I stopped by where Lynn was at, Jane came up to me and said, "Hi Joseph."
I said to her, "What's your name?"
She said, "It's Jane."
"Oh, nice to see you," Then, I started talking to her other friends and left with Lynn.
I'm really not interested in Lynn. Especially after spending the day with her. She couldn't get off her phone even though she was the one who wanted to spend time together. She said the word, "ick" unironically. We hardly engaged in conversation.
I want to spend time with Jane and get to know her. Did i do the right thing by playing it nonchalant? How should I go about having her want to spend time with me? I don't like texting and calling is very unusual.
- Joseph
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If you don't like texting or calling you will have to talk to her when you see her or go to her house and knock on the door and speak to her there.
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