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I don't understand why some women have disdain for short men. I'm saying this as a woman myself.
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ikr bruh like they be saying "he needs to be over 6"0" when they are like 5'2 so those kinds cant be jokin lmao
ReplyYeah. I'm a woman who is 5'3'' and I don't feel comfortable around tall men; I think they're intimidating.
ReplyThe point is that the woman's preference for tall men isn't in relation to HER height. She's choosing a tall man, no matter her height, to maximise the chances of healthy children. Just like the male will prefer young women to maximise the chances of her being fertile and able to produce heathy children. A 5'2" woman will never accept a 5'5" man, as it's not about HER height, it's about maximising the chances of producing healthy children. This is biology. It's not something I've made up. Do some research in scientific papers.
Replywhat I'm saying is that they think its an "ick" most the time when a guy is just like 2 inches short of 6'0" like they call them short even if its just 2 inches short of 6'0"
ReplyBecause tall men are *chefs kiss*
ReplyHaving a preference for tall men is one thing, disliking a man just because of his short stature is something else entirely. I will say this: There's nothing wrong with liking tall men. However, I take issue when I observe my fellow women reject a man solely because he's not as tall as she prefers, or worse, makes fun of a man for being shorter than average. In the latter case, I'm like, "Ma'am, you wouldn't like it if a man made fun of you for being thin or chubby. So don't make fun of men who are shorter than you prefer." That's my take on it.
ReplyShe's rejecting the short man or the not tall man because of biology. It's not a choice in the sense you are thinking. It's about the biological need to reproduce with the healthiest male to maximise the chances of producing healthy children. This info is in all the scientific journals. Read a book on biology.
ReplyYeah, exactly! I feel the same way! Like ok tall men are sexy but disliking a guy just cause he's short? Weird imo
ReplyMy 5' 4" tall son would like this post.
ReplyI would have given a short guy a chance, but he never talked to me or anything. When I tried to talk to him, he didn't say anything except through his friend.
He never reached out or anything. I wasn't even asking for anything. I didn't even want a fairytale/Disney romance. I just wanted to get to know him and build a connection because I liked him too.
You know what giving a short guy a chance did to me?
I've been torn up and suicidal because of him. I cried my eyes out. I never feel like I'm enough... not pretty, not thin enough... just not enough for this guy who stared at me and acted like he liked me!
In my experience, short men weren't interested in anything more than an ego boost.
Short guys, if you see yourself in this post and you're clutching pearls, do something. Don't treat your love interests like that and then complain that women don't want short guys. You know preferences aren't set in stone and that personality and actions speak louder, don't be dense.
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