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Up until this day, I still can't afford to forget my first love, it has been 2 and a half years since I've fell for them. The problem is, I, myself, don't have any plans on moving on. Every time I wake up in the morning, they were first to get inside my mind, throughout the day I would think of them and silently ask myself If how was their day going, and even before I go to sleep I would never forget to include them in my prayers. As time goes by, I never really expected big things, for instance, them liking me back, I just want to adore and admire them even if it means me and them in a farthest distance and besides it makes me happy and my heart flutters when I am loving them every second.
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People, most likely my friends, content creators, and etc. had told me to start healing and moving on because at the end of the day they can not even reciprocate my love for them and it will just worsen my physical and mental health, but for me, if it weren't for them, I would not have been able to have a motivation to wake up every single day, they were my savior, I think i really owe them my life. They were my first love and I had not love anyone else after them. It has been them all this time.
If you were in my shoes, would you have just move on or just continue loving and be forever stuck with them because it makes you happy and alive?
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i would have keep loving them and respect them but not being stuck on them, I would definitely have allowed people (good ones) to come in my life while leaving a little place for them in my heart too because whatever happens, life goes on and we must not be stuck anywhere after a certain period, and I guess a couple of year and a half is more than enough.
ReplyI'm not OP, but I think this is excellent advice. All I can add is that the physical aspect of romantic love is foundation that supports the linkage of all our senses. Best of luck.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
Mary, Mother of Christ, intercede for us with your prayers, now, and always.
Replythank you very much for your advice! as for now, i am gradually trying to not push people away just because of them and i am trying to interact with other people also, i think it is a wonderful experience to let ppl go inside my life especially the ones who had good intentions, in the end it is still for me to decide whether if i’ll leave a special place in my heart for them or just get over with them and try to mingle with other people :)
Replywish you all the great happiness dear :)
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