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I feel trapped in my relationship. I cant ever speak up for myself or he’ll yell at me and call me an asshole or a bitch. He always tries to put me down for trying to speak up. He constantly accuses me of cheating and i feel like I cant talk to any kind of male ever. He says hes trying to change but its clear hes not because if he was he would realize that the amount of times he’s hurt me isn’t normal. I feel like I just cant leave, I love him too much. It just hurts, I feel so unappreciated, even when he tells me he loves me and will always love me. Im very suicidal and have suicidal tendencies, and all he does is berate me for it, telling me that i dont love him and that maybe i should just do it instead of being a pussy. I hate everything.
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"Love isn’t supposed to hurt. If it does, then it is absolutely not a true love. "
Also Love isn't the only thing we need in our life. Being with someone who respects you is 100 times better than being with one who disrespects you and hurts you in name of love.
I can understand that you love him so much but you need to love yourself first. So try to get out of this toxic relationship and search for your own happiness. You deserve to be happy. <3 <3 <3
ReplyPlease don't hate yourself. You are right you love him so much that you have left out yourself. True love means to help each other grow. If you are the only one doing that then clearly his love for you is very subjective. You deserve to grow too. You deserve to feel safe within a relationship. You deserve to be appreciated for loving him despite how bad he's treated you. Your relationship right now is toxic and it would be good for you to get out it will only hurt for a while because you have spent so much of yourself loving him. But I hope you don't wait for the time that there is nothing more left of you. You deserve a good man who will nurture, appreciate and cherish you for who and what you are. Your boyfriend is selfish and needs to mature. He only takes love from you and tells you that he loves you but his actions towards you prove otherwise. Don't be afraid of being alone for a little while. Love is wonderful when spent with and towards the right person. Chin up girl you got this.
ReplyThe 2 of you should seek couples counseling, for the sake of the love you have for each other; things can get better little by little but you need an intervention, as a couple. Family courts or a church might be able to guide you to a counseling service.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
Mary, Mother of Christ, intercede for us with your prayers, now, and always.
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