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I can’t believe I’ll be in the apartment my second year because I chose to ignore all the red flags. I am pregnant and my BOYFRIEND decides to keep us in this crap hole apartment another year. This will be our third baby. I should have listened to my heart I would not have been in this crappy situation. I had a great guy that made me feel comfortable and someone I could depend on. I decided to leave for this stupid mess! We need a freaking house, we have the money. But guess what when you date a guy with no ambition and no goals in life this is what you get! I’m literally about to lose it!! I just wanted to vent not that it would help much.. Al the houses we’ve looked at in the past 4 months he’s said NO. It’s been well over ten houses. I’m tired and stressed daily. Our lease is up next month I just wish this was all
A dream.😭
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I'm not an expert or a therapist...but I can say that it is scary to buy yourself a mortgage without the promise of being able to finish it out. As a man that is terrifying, more terrifying than a shitty existence you know you can afford.
Maybe you can tell him its okay to be afraid, hell - terrified - to buy a house, but its worth it. It is equity. Every rent payment goes to nothing, every mortgage payment goes to something you could sell.
ReplyI tell him this advice all the time unfortunately nothing works and time is ticking. Idk what to do now. I’m stuck in a terrible bind.
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