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recently, i gained weight and i did a worst haircut and people around me started to tease, criticize and giving suggestions on loosing weight. i have lot of insecurities, whenever people point out those. i will start panicking and getting all conscious about myself. it hurts when people around you always do the things which makes me insecure. it hurts when the closest people around you who you trusted the most and opened all your wounds to them started to make fun of it. it really hurts when you started to think whether you have to share any feelings to them because thinking they might even make fun of it. it hurts when your introverted self started to open and getting hurt by that. i was an extrovert. due to the surroundings i became an introvert.
i talk to the people who i think they are close to me. what should i do when those few started to hurt me with their should i stop talking to them and rebuild all my boundaries or should i just ignore and continue be with them
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You should stand up for yourself and tell them to shut up and take a long look at themselves.
ReplySadly it seems like you’ve found out the hard way that you can’t trust anyone. Bullying is evil and unforgivable and can damage someone’s self confidence for decades.
In future you’ll be far more careful about who you open up to as ppl can use it as ammunition against you as you’ve just discovered.
In answer to your question should you stop talking to them or continue, well that’s impossible to answer with out more context. If it’s happening at school or work place etc you don’t have a choice but to be around them unfortunately but at least try to minimise communication and interaction as much as you can. If it’s somewhere you don’t have to have any more dealings with them then it would be better for your mental health to sever contact completely. Whatever the case I wish you the best luck
ReplyIt most definitely hurts 💔
You're not alone
You could re-build boundaries. It won't mean cutting people off, but limiting how far they come to you. It might be a good idea to test the waters with these people. If you are unsure of how they will react or what they will say, start with something small, and see if they are in a good place to be able to share more with them
Ignoring may actually hurt them without them expressing it. Just as they don't know the extent of the impact of their words on you, people also tend to keep their true feelings to themselves. Have the upper hand by being the one with such great morals that you are never the one causing pain. People tend to copy, so they might mirror your kindness :)
ReplySometimes there are people dont know the 5 seconds rule. 5 seconds rule is like when you cant fix the thing within 5 seconds ignore it. Its basic knowledge and why people are like that, maybe because they are just insecure. Babe, just want you to know that you do youu, you are perfect just the way you are. Start standing up for yourself, slap in a knowledgeable way your class is much higher than them.
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