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I am in a mess. I want you all to help me please! I don't really think my mom loves me. They are like... They want to change me all the time. I just know, I know......they don't love me like they do to my siblings. I am so tired of this sh*t.
Look they praise my siblings but they don't to me. I don't know, I only have my family, I don't even have any friends. I feel so alone. They always point me out in everything. My mom is just like......you know you are not good in this, so why try? Or she always tells me, that I am not helpful or patient, but I try, I swear I do. I don't know what else to do. She seems to not notice my efforts. Do they love me Or not........if they don't... I don't know what to do anymore.
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Wish I had answers and solutions for you but unfortunately I don’t.
But it looks like this could easily turn you to fall into depression and self hatred which is a grave concern. You need to be away from the cause of that but it’s easier said than done. Although as a start is there a school counselor you could approach and ask for advice or a referral?
One thing I can do is genuinely understand and empathize because I grew up with a profoundly disabled sister who got all the love and attention while I was neglected, abandoned and rejected. That’s a whole other story but it does enable me to understand totally your perspective with what your own mother is doing to you and the harm it causes. Knowing what I do about these things I sincerely hope you can resolve the situation one way or another before it does any more damage, good luck
ReplyHey there! My mom always looks down on me. I literally lost all my self esteem because of her. I'm familiar with your feelings or whatever hardships you are going through bcz of your family. But always prioritize yourself. Screw the whole world, always focus on the things which can make you feel better. Also, scream, cry and tell them how it feels to be neglected . Tell them to their face that they have failed as a parent. Just let it out girl. You'll be alright!
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