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What should I do, will he notice? Advice PLEASEEEE
1 month ago · 7 · Relationships, +4 · Explicit
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I have been with my bf for like 7or8 months now and he is the only one I have ever had sex with. That is until last night that is. Sooooo last night me and my gurls went out and got shit faced drunk. We ended up staying at the place the party was at and this morning I woke up in bed next to a guy. We were both completely naked and I could feel that I had had sex. I couldn’t remember shit though. One of my friends told me about everything that happened and I guess I had cheated on my bf a couple of times last night. I am scared and don’t want my bf to find out. I didn’t mean to cheat on him or sleep with anyone else specially not with multiple people. I am sore like I never have been but I know my bf is gonna wanna have sex with me soon cause we do it just bout every day. Will he be able to tell that I slept with someone else? What do I do?
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Be yourself. Have peace in your heart. Our emotions consisting of fear, anger, shame, sadness, etc do not change reality. It was not your intention to lose your personal agreement with yourself or your significant other. We are human. As humans we deserve much grace. We are all trying our best to fit in, to experience, to survive. Just be you. Let your love and sincere affection shine through your eyes when he looks into them.
ReplyBefore talking to your bf, I would get checked and have the Dr run some tests to make sure that your are okay. We are humans and things like these happen often. You are not alone in this. As per your relationship, it would be very hard for anyone to forgive these acts. Question: Is he an extremely nice bf? Are you old enough to plan to marry this person? Trying to figure out if it's worth it that you put yourself on the spot for this person and be ready to hear what they have to say bc it might not be what you would like to hear (or any nice words at all). You are already hurt by what happened and to make yourself THAT vulnerable in front of someone you have to really trust them with your life. Personally, I would keep the secret, go to the Dr and refrain from being intimate until I clear my head.
ReplyThank you for responding. I prob should go to the doctor and get checked. I was told that all 3 of them used condoms and there were wrappers on the nightstand. My bf is nice but I don’t think he would react very good to this even if he knew I wasn’t intentionally seeking it out. He will still think I was responsible for going to the party and putting myself in that position, which I guess I am kinda responsible. We are both young and have never considered marriage. It will be hard to refrain from being intimate cause we literally do it every day. If we do do it tonight when he picks me up, whats the chances he will notice?
ReplyThank you for such sound advice. You are truly appreciated!
ReplyThe other one didn’t go through, so I’ll try this one. Thank you for responding. I was told that all 3 of them used protection and there were wrappers on the nightstand. My bf is nice but I don’t think he would react very good to this even if he knew I wasn’t intentionally seeking it out. He will still think I was responsible for going to the party and putting myself in that position, which I guess I am kinda responsible. We are both young and have never considered marriage. It will be hard to refrain from being intimate cause we literally do it every day. If we do do it tonight when he picks me up, whats the chances he will notice?
ReplyFirst off as yourself these questions and it will help us help you:
1. Did you plan on going to that party to hookup with someone?
2. Were you a willing participant in what happened or do you feel like you were taken advantage of?
3. Are you happy in your relationship?
4. How do you think he would react if you were to tell him or if he were to find out?
5. Did the guy/guys use protection?
ReplyNo I didnt go to the party to hookup or anything like that, I didnt even know that is where we were gonna end up. One of my friends knew bout the party so we went there. It was about an hour from home and I didnt really know anyone. I was so drunk that I dont remember much of anything but I feel I was taken advantage of cause I never woulda let 3 guys be with me at the same time or take turns or nothin like that. Maybe my bf and his friend or somethin but not 3 strangers. My bf and I are happy and have a decent sex life. I dont think hed be happy and maybe leave me if he knew.
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