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We are doing well financially. We have some investments and business going on. All managed by yours truly. I have kids, a husband. Yet i feel so empty. I am exhausted, tired and burned out. I have a fulltime job, a part time job, a store and residential rental businesses and a few properties. All are taken cared by me. I am just feeling the strain of it all but i know i cant give up now. We have gotten this far to give up. All i want is to secure the kids’ future so that they can be set for life. I am just so sad and frustrated that my husband is not readily available when i need him. He works a fulltime job too but in their job they have plenty of idle time. I wanted him to utilize that idle time to expand more his knowledge and our business. What frustrates me more is that all the small stuff like managing the household personnel are also mine. The store personnel are mine too. Sometimes i could just break down and cry silently because i cant take the weight anymore of the responsibility that i have. I think i just need a break without having to worry about the things around me. I worry that if i take a break, things would fall down. I guess i just dont receive as much assistance as i needed. And as much assurance as i needed. I dont know anymore if i am the problem or if it is my husband’s. I dont know what to do.
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Im sorry. I dont get your points
ReplyThere are kids everywhere whose parents don't set them up for life. Kids make their own lives so there is no need for you to do this especially as kids have their own lives to get on with just as you do. Let go of the setting kids up thing and you won't be so exhausted. Allow your kids the benefit of securing their own futures like they are meant to. With everything else that you are doing you have taken on too much and is this all really necessary? Set your priorities straight and only do what you can handle. I wonder if you like to be in full control and if you do it is to your detriment. All the best.
ReplyThank you. I guess i am the toxic one here.
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