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I keep making my boyfriend feel bad. I have his Instagram account and he has mine. I went on his and looked at the search and saw be was following Tara yummy. As a insecure girl that is nowhere near her weight and prettiness I got sad and upset so I unfollowed her on his account. He brought it up today noticing it and asked me if I did it. I said yes and we were talking about it asking me why and I said it's because she's so wow. Tara yummy is a very pretty person but having my boyfriend follow her makes me more insecure. He reassured me saying I'm the only one he finds attractive and all I said was okaaaii because I didn't know what to say I was kinda shocked. And he asked if I didn't believe him. I felt horrible. I definitely made him feel like I don't trust him. It's hard trusting people especially if the relationship is online like ours but I trust him regardless. Am I in the wrong for being upset about it or am I too sensitive??
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It's totally normal to feel insecure from other attractive girls when you are in a relationship. It's a bad feeling yes, but you can't control it. However, you shall never show that insecurity to your boyfriend. A man likes a confident girl. Quick advice: Never show your weakness to a man.
Replybeing hurt is not weakness, it's human. men do like confidence, so do women, but standing quietly while your person lusts after someone else hurts. if she stays quiet for every hurt, he won't know how to love her without hurting her. that is bad communication and eventually she'll be fed up, he'll be frustrated and kaboom.
ReplyIf you are the only girl he finds attractive why did he have Tara yummy on his account?
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